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Asked Jul 6, 2012, 07:03 AM — 18 Answers
Me and my bf had sex for the first time for both of us and I didn't bleed. I told him that I did bc I was scared that he would think that I had sex before. I was readin somewhere that if girls r into sports goin up that they may have broke it then or if they use tampons but I don't use them. From the time I was 2 I was doin sports(I still am). I've done gymnastics, dance, cheerleadin, tennis, basketball, and I used to ride horses. Could that be why I didn't bleed?

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Jul 6, 2012, 07:58 AM
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Me and my bf had sex for the first time for both of us and I didn't bleed. I told him that I did bc I was scared that he would think that I had sex before. I was readin somewhere that if girls r into sports goin up that they may have broke it then or if they use tampons but I don't use them. From the time I was 2 I was doin sports(I still am). I've done gymnastics, dance, cheerleadin, tennis, basketball, and I used to ride horses. Could that be why I didn't bleed?

You didn't bleed because somehow along the way your hymen was broken.

Bleeding or not bleeding is not proof of virginity.
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Jul 6, 2012, 07:59 AM
How old are you right now?
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Jul 6, 2012, 08:35 AM
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How old are you right now?

Me, I'm around 25 - WAY around 25.
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Jul 6, 2012, 08:37 AM


Bleeding is not a actual sign of being a virgin. If you do, ok, if you don't it just means you did not.

You should never start a bad habit of lying, he would know you did not bleed, if he did not have to wash blood off his penis after wards.
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Jul 7, 2012, 08:36 AM
Some women are born without a hymen.
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Jul 9, 2012, 01:16 PM
I think until we hear the OPs age we shouldn't be responding.
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Jul 9, 2012, 07:23 PM
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How old are you right now?
I'm 16 almost 17
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Jul 10, 2012, 12:57 PM
i hve heard that horse riding can sometimes break your hymen darling.... just dont worry about it.. ts actually normal even if it does not bleed! I broke mine by skipping rope but I' am still a virgin and I' am 19 :P
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Jul 10, 2012, 01:01 PM


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I'm 16 almost 17
It is possible your hymen was broken from sports activity.

And are you read y to have a child? No one should be engaging in sexual intercourse unless they are ready to have a child.
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