| Last question first: Yes, roll the money over into an IRA so it is available to pay for the college without paying the 10% early withdrawal penalty.
I do not have my reference material with me, but I believe that you are stuck with paying the 10% penalty, because the early withdrawal was due to the need to pay the 401K loan due to job termination, not educational expenses (at least that's how your 401K custodian views it).
I suggest you get professional tax help. A season pro may be able to find a loophole to prevent you from paying the 10% early withdrawal penalty. I would research it if I had the time, but not at this time of year. |