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This may seem like a pretty weird question, but I think my boyfriend might have bad karma. He's a nice, good guy but his car keeps getting broken into. This has been going on for about five years. It doesn't matter where we are or what kind of car he is driving, his car has been crashed into while parked TWICE, broken into three times and towed more times that I can count (though he's never been in direct violation of the law!) We are both upstanding citizens with perfect records. He holds down a great job and seems to add to the world's betterment. I can't understand why this is still happening to him. I can only imagine that he's done something to warrent this bad karma, either in this life or a past one. Does anyone know how to reverse the karma or to help us protect him and his vehicle? Please help!
It may be that he has developed a "thing" about it and now attracts these experiences in some subconscious, cosmic kind of way? Maybe put the title in someone else's name? Or give a really thorough examination at the minute decisions he makes concerning the car? Or someone else start making those decisions?
The power of thought can and does influence things just like this -- we have a long thread here about just that very thing. Look here. For example, I get great parking spots and I have taught my husband how to do the same thing. Your friend needs to "clean out his history" somehow. If none of it is his fault, how's his insurance? And if its good, then maybe its time to totally shrug it off and know this is exactly what insurance is for?
I do not think it has anything to do with bad karma. How does he handle these situations that keep happening?
I agree with Val, The power of thought can and does influence things around us.
It is very true and we all have energies and we all effect each other some way. I think it is important to learn how to focus on energies and also learn how to deal with them.
Renew yourself and your mind and body. Meditation is a good exercise on how to focus your energies.
Val is right. If I understand properly that maybe things that happened in his past. Could still be effecting him now. So he needs to not focus on these things. Even things like breaking in a vehicle and other things. The focus on that could cause more of it to happen.
So possitive thoughts. Will help. If you are religious and have personal beliefs , prayer has a major impact on yourself and the people around you.
I think your boyfriend has the classic case of "The Law of Resonance." While it may seem that he has "bad karma" attached to him, I don't think that's the case. Ever heard of, "You shall reap what you sow?" Karma is not a bad thing, it's just part of the cosmic laws. If you do something good, then someone will do something good for you too. If you hit someone or do something bad, then obviously something bad will happen to you too. It's just the law of attraction, one can argue that this is a theory but I have certainly used The Law of Attraction to my advantage and can say that whatever you wish for, just may come true.
Another thing is.. if people focus on negative things. Saying such statements like, "I can't do this, or this will definitely happen, my car is going to fall appart again, I'm going to be sick, I can't take it anymore.. etc.... THEN what do you think is the result? When people say, "I can't do this." Then they can't.
If you focus on the positive and think about good things rather than, "Oh today is going to be a really bad day because I am worried about this situation." You could simply state, "Oh today is going to fine, and everything will turn out great with this situation." see what I mean? Examples are clear when people are having a "bad" day, especially beccause they are in a bad... mood. Don't you just hate being around people who are in a bad mood? That's because it effects those around you. So, the universe has to be balanced with negative and positive, if it sn't then... we wouldnt' learn from our mistakes would we?
Anyways I'm not sure if I'm making sense here. I'm sure things will be fine with your Boyfriend. Just tell him to imagine himself wealthy, happy, relaxed no problems. etc.. plain and simple think positive. NO NEGATIVE. The minute anyone starts thinking negatively will be shunned.
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