[ScottGem]

excuse me judykaytee i wasnt talking to you when i sent that message yes i understand i can't say who can and can't answer my question but all i wanted is some advice then i get people saying other things to me i know not to ask questions on here in future i will also tell people how u lot are only on here to judge people and also none of u care bout helping people u get people to tell u what is going on then u judge them even tho they have alot going on.

You asked a question and you got answers to that question. You posted some follow-up which prompted some additional advice based on what YOU posted.

To say "none of u care bout helping people" is an outright lie and just sour grapes because you didn't like some of the help you got. If we are going to help people we need to understand their problems. The more we understand the better we can help. Making judgments is part of the process here. We have to judge the situation so we can determine what the best advice is. If you think we judged incorrectly, then clarify it for us. I just showed when we are wrong we admit it and apologize.

If you don't like the advice you receive then don't follow it. But don't try to insult us by saying we don't care. If we didn't care we wouldn't be offering advice. And if you tell other people such lies you will be doing what you started this thread complaining about.