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Jul 19, 2007, 01:07 PM
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Ex girlfriend owes me $12,000 for money she borrowed for school
My ex girlfriend owes me $12,000 I borrowed to her to pay for her college when I was with her. How do I go about getting it back? She refuses to answer calls and e-mails I send asking nicely if she could pay me back even if it's a little at a time.
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Jul 19, 2007, 01:28 PM
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That's a lot of money to lend without supporting documents. I am assuming you didn't have her sign a note that this was a loan because you trusted her, right ?
I don't know if this is classed as a small claim for court or not but if it is you could take her to court if you have anything saying you did loan her this money.
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Jul 19, 2007, 02:47 PM
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Well you can sue her in court, all you have to prove is that it is a loan, not a gift. So you can provide some document showing she borrowed the money it should be easy
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Jul 24, 2007, 07:22 PM
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Do you have any documentation of this loan (besides cancelled checks?) A note specifying the details of the loan and repayment arrangements? If not, then the chances of getting it to carry any weight in a court of law are slim to none. "Cases" involving ex boyfriend/girlfriend, etc. issues are always fraught with emotion and generally have little or nothing to do with legal issues and judges know this. That said, most courts won't touch these with a 10-foot pole.
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Jul 24, 2007, 07:31 PM
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I think you should get a taperecorder and make some evidence of this. Always blind copy every email you send her... ALWAYS so you keep a record of how many times you have sent her this . And when you go see her, remember to get that taperecorder that you invested in - a really good one - just rent it - and have some proof. Women are sneaky
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Jul 25, 2007, 10:29 AM
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From what I heard anything under $5000.00 would be small claims. I think without any proof your screwed. That's probably why she hasn't e-mailed you back.
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