I'm sorry but lightening skin is not easy as tanning.
Please read this FAQ first.
http://www.askmehelpdesk.com/skin-li...ns-190905.html Look for products containing some of those ingredients such as Kojic acid, arbutin and so on. Another thing is to research these ingredients as I've not gone into depth about them and some of them are controversial.
Once you've purchased a cream/lotion that contains some of those ingredients, apply it to the areas that you want lightening up. But I would not suggest applying it to the genitals as that is a very sensitive area that should not be messed around with

Also, once you've applied the cream/lotion, let it sink in and then apply a sunblock to the skin to prevent your skin from getting any darker.
Don't expect your skin to get lighter in like a day. It could take weeks or months to work. The two most popular products at the moment are Bio Clair and Diana Stalder.
Good luck!
