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pshyic helper · May 20, 2007, 03:19 PM

Here goes i was with a girl for 3 years and we lived together then her daughter came along who she never raised at 15 to live with her she said she never wanted to b with me ant more but wanted things to stay excatly as they where we still sleep in the same bed nothing happens she tells me to move on but contacts me every day knowing i can't while she is in my life she says i don't need a partner and me and her will be together forever then she says when i ask her can we get back together no point in dragging it out no you may not think so know but u will thank me for it one day she says she loves me but not as a gf please this is making me ill help what is going on

tickle · May 20, 2007, 03:37 PM

God... I absolutely agree that it is unfathomable. Possibly her newly found l5 year daughter doesn't want you around and has a lot of influence in the matter. You abslolutely must get this lady alone and have a really good discussion on what is going on in her (you and she) life and go from there. If you feel there is no possibility, or it is just too difficult then get out of the situation before it drags you down.

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pshyic helper · May 20, 2007, 03:41 PM

Originally Posted by tickle

God...I absolutely agree that it is unfathomable. Quite possibly her newly found l5 year daughter doesnt want you around and has a lot of influence in the matter. You abslolutely must get this lady alone and have a really good discussion on what is going on in her (you and she) life and go from there. If you feel there is no possibility, or it is just too difficult then get out of the situation before it drags you down.

My thoughts on your predicament.

Thanks for your help but her dauchter loves me and spends loads of time with me its her mum she hates