[helpmeplease09]

Okay.. so I am a teenager and I have been somewhat sexually active lately. I have never had intercourse but I have given a few blowjobs lately. I am due for a period in probably a week or so ( I don't have that regular of a period or anything but I'm guessing) and in the past week I have had some brownish spots in my discharge... I don't know what it is and I don't have it every day or anything... It has only happened twice in the past week or so.. but its starting to worry me... is it just prior to my period or is it something I should be worried about?

[mrscoltweaver]

I sometimes spot before an actual period and yes, it is sometimes brownish.
Please be aware that you can still get STDs by giving oral sex as well as receiving, and get infections from fingers, too.

[helpmeplease09]

Thank you for your help, and I know I can get an STD, but how are you supposed to tell a guy to use a condom for head? NOBODY I know uses one... any tips?

[mrscoltweaver]

Isn't there a mouth dam that you can where while doing it? And who cares what everyone else is doing! If you are grown enough to do it, stand your ground and be responsible. You only get one body and you should take care of it.

[mrscoltweaver]

P.S. Guys don't care how they get there, use your hand!

[alkalineangel]

You simply state "if you want it, you'll let me put this condom on"... and if he has a problem with that then he can find some way to bl*w himself. You need to worry about you and your health and not worry about anyone else right now. You are young, and have plenty of life ahead of you, you don't need a STD holding you back.

As for the discharge, it sounds like you period's coming...

[namitly]

Well/// stop giving him blow-jobs... and aren't you bit young for that sort of stuff... stick with cuddling.. no hard feelings.. just a peaceful advice!!