[Alexink]

I'm a very nice guy. I'm 13 and I play sports. But no one seems to like me. What can I do to get a girl to like me. Please someone help me.

[ScottGem]

At 13 you have time to worry about girls. Enjoy your childhood

[Alexink]

I've never had a girlfriend before

[ScottGem]

So? All the more reason to wait.

[Alexink]

Ok

[Wondergirl]

Is there a contest going on about girlfriends and boyfriends? If so, will there be a prize?

The last thing my two sons cared about at 13 was hanging around with some girl. Sports and school studies and homelife were what was important to them and to most of their male friends. Of course, if some girl could throw a baseball like a guy or shoot hoops or tutor them for an upcoming test or bake them a batch of cookies, then she might pass muster as at least a girl they might want to get to know better. But for a girlfriend? Yuk!

[louise1928]

Be nice talk to them get to know some girls in your class.

[Alexink]

Did that already but I will try again.

[Wondergirl]

Did that already but i will try again.

Girls like to talk, so compliment them and be a good listener and ask good questions that will keep them talking. If you can do that, they will think you are the most wonderful guy who ever lived. I know--I'm female.

YOU: Hey, Sarah, your hair is really shiny. Do you use a special shampoo?
*********
SUSIE: Miss Wooster makes us translate such hard Latin passages and then reads them out loud in class.
YOU: Without checking them first? What if you didn't get something right?

[Alexink]

Ok

[Chloe7436]

You can just talk to a girl and say your beautiful and all that stuff and start having conversations

[TheKidOfTheWise]

Look at that we are the same age, but the same is with me. Wait until high school, or what ever you call it. You are allowed to so more things, you can pay for your own food, by getting a paid from a part time job. That's why I don't date.

So you should wait a little while. Just don't take it to seriously happened to someone I know, he had a girlfriend for two years but she went to a different collage and he was devastated when they broke up.

[v33r]

13 year boy can't impress a girl... Don't think so much and enjoy your childhood like a child :)

[Alexink]

Ok

[Alexink]

I'm 13, sporty guy but I think I'm an ugly guy. So please help me! Please don't say for me to enjoy my childhood or that I'm young to wait a while.

[teacherjenn4]

If you act desperate, no one will want to hang out with you. Have fun, hang out with your friends. People that are fun to be around make more friends and people will enjoy being with you.

[Fr_Chuck]

If you think you are ugly, you will give that impressoin to everyone else.

At 13, boys and girls are children, have no idea about real life or even what real dating is.
Most girls will not like you unless you are popular, play sports or have money, but there are some, issue is most 13 and younger girls are not into dating yet, or if they are, they want a boy a year or two older,

Mostly you are going to have to wait.

Next when you are really old enough to date, you start asking girs out, the more you ask out the better chance there is.

You will have to work on self image, you are too young for this, but for adults, I tell them to go to Walmart, and sit and watch, you will see people who are dressed bad, look bad, weigh 300 lbs and more, all with partners, husbands or wife's.

For real adult dating in the real world, looks do not mean as much as who you are.

There are still plenty of shallow people who look at looks or money only but they are nnot worth dating anyway.

At 13, just make friends, do things with them, in groups,

[LOLlover]

Calm down and be confident in yourself.show some self respect,having this will make you feel more atractive

[Alexink]

I'm a really nice guy. I am in 6th. Need help now please.

[theindiankid]

Why will they hate you first of all?