[louise1928]

My friend Ben is only twelve and he says he's had sex with a fourteen year old girl and can prove it, he has text messages from the girl confirming it. Ben says he was drunk at the time (which worries me even more) He is usually well behaved so I kind of find it hard to beliieve hed doing something like this. If it's true what shall I do? Nothing?

Another thing I'm wondering is why I care so much I think I might be jealous or something. I wouldn't have sex with him though obviously I'm way too young. Help?

[Alty]

Sounds like Ben has a lot of issues. He's drinking and having drunken sex and he's only 12.

The thing is, you can't help him. If he's telling the truth then an adult needs to get involved and get him the help he needs.

You have to figure out how involved you want to get in this. You're a kid too, and this sort of burden shouldn't be on your shoulders.

Talk to your parents about this, tell them what he told you, and tell them that you're worried about him. They're adults, and they can help him far more than you can.

[Fr_Chuck]

Sounds like he is either just bragging or faked this to try to talk you into having sex with him.

I woud ignore it, and do nothing and if he keeps talking about it, just tell him you can't hang with him, if this is all he will talk about