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pink_jacket · Aug 13, 2012, 12:37 PM

Hi Friends,

Sadly its been over 2 years now that I haven't seen my x nor has he ever come to visit his son,I last we heard he had got married, although he had proved to be a bad husband, and had taken me to the limits of torture I still think of him when I am alone, although I'm strong ifnront of my family, I really miss a family life, to see my son with his father, is a dream which is lost somewhere in my eyes... what do I do.. how do I feel better. Over these 2 years I have really fixed my financial issues, worked hrd and achieved almost everything I would want to have in my home, but why am I not happy.. what do I do to get there.. my son is a sweetheart, the heartbeat and smile of my face.. to come home play with him and see him is a pleasure and a blessing from God.. but why am I still empty inside. What happened to me... I was so strong, why do I feel like this suddenly.. although I know he wudnt ever respect me or consider antyhign I did for him, neither his return would cause me any ease and nor would I want to go back to a sscary and violent relationship, why am I feeling low... what's wrong with me, is there any pills or therapy I can do to feel better?

Homegirl 50 · Aug 13, 2012, 12:40 PM

I would say you are probably lonely. Also thinking about your son growing up without a father.
Do you have a social life? How old is your son?

pink_jacket · Aug 13, 2012, 12:43 PM

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pink_jacket · Aug 13, 2012, 12:44 PM

Originally Posted by Homegirl 50

I would say you are probably lonely. Also thinking about your son growing up without a father.
Do you have a social life? How old is your son?

Hi Dear,
no social l ife, you guessed it rite, I am one of those who are hesitant to answer questsions about my x.. Son is 3, we do go out buy stuff /toys /electronic rides / ice creams me and my son are great partners but this happeiness isn't lasting.. tellme a way to make it last

Homegirl 50 · Aug 13, 2012, 12:50 PM

Enjoy your son, they grow up fast. But you also need the company of adults. Your son cannot fulfill all of your social needs.
Join a single parent group. Do you go out with your co workers?
You don't have to answer questions about your ex, it is no one's business. How old are you?