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addy · Feb 28, 2007, 06:27 PM

OHH MYYY GOOSHH!
I just broke up with my recent bf(2 days I found out he was a loser) and now I am going out with another guy! I have been single for a grand total of 24 hours. Well, I have always joked around wit him, like as friends, and its just totally different.This would be my third boyfriend this year! 2nd this week! Well here is my problem.

I am responsible.But right now I am living wit my grandparents and I don't know if they are going to let me go out wit him or even talk to him! I have a cell phone but I live out were there is basically NO service, and I can't text message because they told me not to.I don't want to tick them off because they are great they have been pretty much raising me and my mom has too but we have lived with them for like 10 years, but thankfully in December me and my mom are moving into a house so hopefully there are more perception there.

Well that's not really my prob.

My problem is
a. dealing wit my new boyfriend

b. telling my grandparents about him.

Please help!

cheerchic24 · Mar 7, 2007, 05:08 PM

Hmmm... telling your grandparents can be hard. Mayb you should talk 2 your mom first. I wouldn't bring the subject up w/ my grandparents but if they ask just caually say I'm friends w/ this guy. It wouldn't hurt 2 text evey once in a while, just don't do it often. If u can confide in your grandparents just tell them! UR grandparents also don't need 2 no every single thing that goes on in your life. If they say no, don't go out with him bhind their back. But if you think theyd be fine w/ it, give him a call. I'm sure they wouldn't mind you talking to them. If they automatically object, calmly explain tat you are just friends and not planning 2 get married tomorrow. Hopw this helped :)

addy · Mar 8, 2007, 06:25 PM

Thanks cheerchic! I'll try it!!

Shine · Mar 9, 2007, 01:55 PM

Perhaps you should spend some time being single. And that would solve the grandparent question. Make sure you are with this guy because you like him and not simply because you feel like you have to have a boyfriend or you need love feel validated.

addy · Mar 9, 2007, 06:53 PM

Are you saying I should spend more time being single just to be single, or are you saying to be single for awhile since I dumped him the day before? Because I have been single ever since 3rd grade.

Shine · Mar 9, 2007, 07:44 PM

Yes, you should be single just for a while. And everyone is supposed to be single when they are in the 3rd grade. Just wait a bit and see what happens.

addy · Mar 11, 2007, 03:20 PM

Maybe where you came from.Heck, when I was in third grade, people already had been kissd.I know, strange school, but that show it is.

mrsmoz · Mar 11, 2007, 03:37 PM

jus wondering addy, how old r u?? i dont no wat 3rd grade is :confused:
it doesnt sound fair 2 me that u hav ur own cell but ur grandparents stop u frm textin someone!!

addy · Mar 12, 2007, 04:56 PM

They pay the billz for my cell.I was 8 when I was in the 3rd grade.