[mandyshore]

Okay so I have a best friend since about 2 years now, but there's been ups, and downs. He's with me in school since about 2 years, always been there, but my problem was that I used to hangout with other new friends as well. Sometimes ditching him too even though he didn't like it, because he just wanted to be there.

Everything was going on perfectly when he had a huge fight with his other best friend where he has been accused of doing something. He never told me that day when this happened, and indeed next morning someone else told him, and I got really hurt, and frustrated, and accused him of something maybe he has done or hasn't. Even I don't know but I should have supported him.

He doesn't trust me. Its been 6 days. I'm crying send him 100 messages telling him I love him, I didn't meant it. He has abused me, swore at me, but I just want to be with him. I love him, I can't think straight without it.

Do I deserve a chance? I've gone crazy without him, and not talking to him. What do I do?

[Emily89473]

He has abused you and swore at you. You can do better and he is the one that should be begging for a 2nd chance!
But if you don't believe me then just go to school and say sorry in person.
By the way I have been there and you can do better!!
OK that was my friend

[talaniman]

Stop the begging and messeging and let things cool off and maybe he may be ready to talk. Hope for the best, plan for the worse.

Did you ever get the real story behind this screw up?

[Stellaw]

Give him time to miss you. Stop sending messages, and begging. If he's ready to talk to you then start all over again as being friends. Tell him what really happened. Exercise the honesty thing between the both you.

[Raiise]

Give him a little time. Change his name on your phone for a little while, and send him a last message going 'i'll be here when you've calmed down'. Don't take the abuse personally, you've been close for so long. Don't message him for a little while until you think he's regretful for how he's treated you.