My daughter is a cherished only child. I divorced early because he didn't want to be a father after all... too young. I did remarry they didn't work, but she was loved and cherished buy all grandparents. We were so close she has been my whole world. Great relationship all throughout her college years. She married into a prominent family (. Very good people). My son in law is the besrt dad, husband , son in law and person. After her marriage and she is around affluent people she treats me like I am a lessor person. I'm not white trash, had lucrative career in real estate until I retired to take of my elderly mother.
Daughter calls to talk when it is about her, any of my concerns or problems are cut off by her. She can be nice unless she is around her "high society" friends, then I am ignored so much as she won't stay in the same area where I am. She mingles away. I'm not heavy, 120 lbs, her friends seem to like me. If she needs something like babysitting I'm always there. I go out of my way for her love and respect. Last weekend we were all at lake hoi
Uses ( we each have one) she totally ignored me and then texted about what a "fun" weekend she had. My son in law is a prominent handsome wonderful man that always makes me feel welcome. I have no one else in my life but a wonderful husband 10 yr older. She thinks I'm a fool for taking care of my mom. My heart is broken and if I try to talk to her about
Ut it she just gets nasty. What happened to my sweet girl. Been going on 16 years so no chance it is a faze. Then she puts down "uppity" people. Calling the kettle black!! Any advise? I try to not answer phone calls then she is nice for a few weeks then it's back to I'm not good enough. I have even considered suicide or moving away and changing my name. Grandiose love me and that would hurt them, but they r growing and gettu
Ing other outside interests. She will NOT have an adult conversation about it. I have tried. She always turns back on me... she would have made a great attorney. Just too spoiled? Please help with any advise. Taking care of my 93 year old mom is draining me and to have this loss I don't feel like I habeanyrhing to live for. You loose friends when your stuck at home and can't do things with your friends, they finally quit asking.
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