[vidhi001]

I AM always feel depressed. Don't want to do any work. My concentration has become nil. And my memory has also become zero. My husband don't want to talk to me. He always neglecgt me

[ollymo]

I too suffer from depression. It is a really disease, a chemical imbalance. Sounds like you need to see your doctor. I have been on antidepressants for 15 years and they help a lot. I still get bouts of depression, but it is much better controlled.

I tend to be asocial (not wanting to be with people or talk to them). As long as you are not rude or ugly to them, in my opinion, there is no reason you can't keep to yourself.

As far as the not wanting to work and loss of concentration, I feel that the depression has a lot to do with that.

My husband and I have been married over 30 years. We don't have much to say to each other anymore. I have tried to talk to him about it, but he won't talk to me. Seems he puts everyone else first. For a long time I was bothered by it, but I have now realized it is his problem, not mine. I try to include him in conversations, I do thinks for him, hoping he will change, but he's not going to change so I have had to learn to deal with it. That may not be what you want, you might want to be closer to him. You might try some counseling, alone first, and then see if your husband is willing to try it also.

I hope this helps, I'm not expert, just know from experience how things can be with depression. Perhaps, he doesn't understand your depression either (I don't think mine does). If he is approachable, talk to him about your feelings of sadness, etc.

Good luck and God Bless.

[Kahani Punjab]

Ollymo!

Your answer and the way you replied is so nice. I really appreciate it. I learnt much from it.