Unless you have already been through the heartache of getting over someone, you just feel like the hurt will never end.
I'm talking from experience that getting over someone you loved, no matter how long you were together, is one of the hardest things you will ever do.
But TRUST me when I say, and everyone in the world will agree with me, that I promise you it gets better.
It may take weeks or months, but one morning you'll wake up, and you'll feel better than you did the day before.
I don't mean to sound patronizing, but everyone at some point in their lives has had to go through this, and everyone comes out the other side.
You're best thing to do to speed this process along is immerse yourself in other things. Don't contact either of them, because what they did to you was really mean. You don't want people like that in your life anymore.
Hang out with different friends, have fun with them. There are plenty of other guys out there, and people don't have just one person for them that is perfect. Eventually you will find another guy who will make you feel even more special and will love you even more than this guy did. Trust me.
Good luck and I hope everything works out for you.
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