[a-s-m-i-8-9]

Hey everybody
I'm Asmaa and I'm 21
Well I'm studying spanish 5 hours a week ( 2h30 at a time)
There was a guy in my class a bit older late 20, early 30, was the definition of a stereotype that my friends would've loved to date, except me
He was a suit guy, very serious, you know that kind.
My friend in class (a 35 y.o mum) told me he would stare at me, and that he was into me, cause he stares a lot, anyway she would tell me that we're fitting each other, I would laugh at her and never mind of what she was saying
Well as time went by, he was getting a bit comfortable everyday, and I saw in him a funny sweet guy.
I started liking him 3 weeks before last week class.
I catch him staring at me and then looking away
When I talk to the teacher about something he would comment and say something
Look at me and smile, look at me do nothing and look away
I don't know he was just mysterious
Well the day after the exam ( the day before the last day of courses) the whole class went to a restaurant lounge, to hang out a little bit
I was supposed to go in my friend's car, but my friend told other friends to go with her and I went with HIM, but we weren't alone, then he said we're going to be a bit late cause he's going to buy some stuff from a place known for flower shops
I was like WHAAAAAT I had stuff going on in my mind like ( will he buy flowers? For all the class? For me? )
, eventually we were late and went to the restaurant directly
During the diner he was sweet and funny, he was telling jokes laughing, being spontaneous, I liked him ever more, he would stare at me and smile for no reason I don't know
I just felt something.
Well today was the last day at spanish classes, we talked a lot about my internship a lot of stuff
And when class was dismissed, he just shake my hand and told me bye bye
Didn't ask for my email nor my Facebook
I was a bit disappointed, now I feel things aren't finished yet
There's something there I know it
So *** help me, is it real? What should I do?

[talaniman]

Quite trippin' in your own head, because this seems to be all you, and no him. If he has an interest wouldn't he do something besides say good bye?

Let it go, as you never know what's on his mind, and you never bothered to ask.

[Pleasehelpme411]

You never know, the guy could have a wife at home, waiting for him and he's just another "Person" that flirts with other women. Not saying he's married or anything lol. But hey, people who are mysterious are usually married and trying to keep civil without any awkwardness. Or they are just weird as hell. If your into those "mysterious" people, good luck reading them, because usually its you that has to ask him out. By the way. That is what I was saying to myself the whole time. Why didn't you ask him out then? I have a feeling your shy..

[a-s-m-i-8-9]

Yeah I couldn't do that, because, where I come from, girls don't ask guys out, and yes I'm a little bit shy

[Pleasehelpme411]

I can see how its odd to ask guys out ( don't really see that too much now do you , lol ) but it happens, and it happens all over the world, if your really into him and he isn't asking you out ( which it can be possible that he's shy, I know I was ) You should try asking him out. There is always a good chance you get a positive answer back from him :-)
You should ask people who know him better to see if he has a girlfriend already to spare the awkward moment. Sister,Friend, family member. But I hope it end up well for you. Good luck :-)

[talaniman]

I go with the subtle private approach, talk to him until you both are comfortable, you know as in taking the opportunity when you see each other to small talk, and see what develops. Guys can be rather shy too, and they can't read minds.

I recommend not letting well meaning friends into your business, until you have handled it yourself. The last thing you need is everybody else trying to help you. Shy or not.