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    Jan 31, 2011, 10:12 PM
    Can't understand what is going on
    Hey. I've dated this girl twice and we broke up today. Before we broke up, I had already given up about this relationship, and we both talked about this "attitude" and I tried to change it, but I couldn't and I can't understand why did this happen. I love her and she loves me, but every call, every chat with her, I feel like I don't care, but, when I was near her, I felt she was the one, for real. Damn, I thought that breaking up would be the right thing to do because I didn't feel that need to talk/be with her. What I don't understand is why and how I lost interest in a person that I really loved and still love.. one moment she was everything for me, next moment I didn't care about that person. I feel terrible about this because I know I'm hurting her, even though I don't want to do that.
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    Jan 31, 2011, 10:18 PM

    You dated twice and considered this a relationship? How old are you?
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    Jan 31, 2011, 10:35 PM
    18. Why?
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    Jan 31, 2011, 10:41 PM

    What relationship was there? Did you even know her middle name?

    You broke it up? She'll get over it. Move on.

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