[haze]

My inner Labia is longer and fatter than my outer Labia. I used to be very self concience about them but actually really like them now.

Just wanting to know people thoughts,
Men do you find them attractive or a put off?
What about woman who have them do you have insecurities, hate them or love them??

Kind of weird question to ask I know but I'm just curious

[jenniepepsi]

I do need to ask how old you are before having an in depth conversation about this.
But in generall, all women are different, just like being taller and shorter, and all women are beautiful, ALL over.

[haze]

Hi Jenniepepsi I am 22

[jenniepepsi]

OK :) thanks hon.

My inner is larger than my outer as well. I have been that way since I was a teen starting my period, and it only got worse once I became sexually active. It used to bother me too. In fact *blush* I used to thnk it looked like I had a penis growing inside my vagina. I was a drama queen hehe.

After going through school (medical) and doing reports on reproductive systems, I have seen pictures, in which some women are even larger than I. VERY VERY large, you would think they were ears! And women who's inner labia are so small, they look like chldren.

Either way, no matter what size a woman's vigina, labia, clitoris, etc, all of which come in many sizes, they are all normal and fine :)

I'm sure some men have preferances, smaller, larger, etc. but that's just like women have a preference for what size penis they prefer.

[CravenMorhead]

My inner Labia is longer and fatter than my outer Labia. I used to be very self concience about them but actually really like them now.

Just wanting to know people thoughts,
Men do you find them attractive or a put off?
What about woman who have them do you have insecurities, hate them or love them????

Kinda weird question to ask I know but im just curious

I have both a penis and no opinion on the matter. To be honest it has never really been that much of an issue. It is just there and that is that. So long as it doesn't really hinder penetration, it is all good.

Most guys are just happy that they've got access that they don't really care what it looks like. We're not going to run away because your lips are large or small for that matter.

Just my thoughts, take them for what they're worth.

[haze]

Thanks for you comment.

I used to be self concience about It but I started having intercourse very young about 14yrs One of the people I slept with made a hurtful comment about the way I was down there, but I have now moved on and believe he was just immature and to young.

I have actually grown to like them with help and support from my partner of 4 years who absolutely loves them.

I think most of the shame people have about this is from TV and porn, 90% of porn have woman who do not have bigger inner labia making us feel we are not normal and not sexy.

I also get very frustrated and angry when other men start talking about woman with the same thing making jokes and very nasty comments "roast beef" was the most recent comment I have heard and laughing and saying horrible things.

Hope this post makes sense when I post it :)

[smoothy]

Don't worry about it... many men... Myself included... Like larger inner labia (something else to have fun with) more than almost non-existant ones... but what it really boils down to... we like whatever kind the woman who captured our heart has.

[Enigma1999]

but what it really boils down to....we like whatever kind the woman who captured our heart has.

I just wanted to take the time to say that this is one of the nicest posts/answers I have read in a while...

[smoothy]

Thanks ladies... just telling it like I see it.

[Alty]

Thanks ladies.....just telling it like I see it.

Well, you are a rare one. Too many people, men and women alike, let physical things control how they feel about a person.

Large breasts, small breasts, big labia, small labia, big penis, small penis, fat, skinny, short, tall. None of it should matter.

I think that how a person judges others is a good test for anyone in the dating scene. Would you really want a man or woman that can't see past the physical? I know I wouldn't.

Too many people are hung up by silly things, things that in the long run really don't matter. I married my husband because he's my best friend. He's no Tom Cruise, he isn't hung like a horse, but he makes me laugh, he loves me, and he and I can spend 24 hours a day together and never get tired of each others company. The fact is, I love being with him. I love to talk to him, I love to spend time with him, I love just having him near me. That's what matters. :)

[smoothy]

Just to let the OP know what I have personally seen has ranged from literally nubs(barely any at all)... to about 1 3/4 inches long... (One Columbian woman I once dated, they were AWESOME :D ) You may be far more average than you think. I know most women don't go around looking at other women's coochies to know. But guys do.

[Enigma1999]

I also get very frustrated and angry when other men start talking about woman with the same thing making jokes and very nasty comments "roast beef" was the most recent comment I have heard and laughing and saying horrible thing.

Then these man aren't worthy of having a good woman...

I have to agree with the others that it shouldn't really matter.

Also, considering the fact that your current lover doesn't have an issue, and YOU no longer have an issue... then that's all that should matter.

People are going to say rude remarks about anything. We all know this. Not with just the way people look, but what people have, do, don't do... so on and so forth.

I used to be self conscience of my breasts. I am a small B cup. I couldn't stand it! I was contemplating getting a boob job, but then I thought, "eh, what the hell" and didn't. Iv'e never had complaints. In fact, I actually ended up liking them.

So you see, every person has had or still has hang ups about themselves.

I wouldn't worry about it.

[CravenMorhead]

Large breasts, small breasts, big labia, small labia, big penis, small penis, fat, skinny, short, tall. None of it should matter.

I think that how a person judges others is a good test for anyone in the dating scene. Would you really want a man or woman that can't see past the physical? I know I wouldn't.

I haven't had hossenfeffer in ages so forgive me for splitting hares.

I disagree slightly. I do think looks matter to a point. It is part of the compatibility tree. Physical, mental, emotional, and sexual. All are required for a successful relationship and if one is lacking then there is a good chance the relationship will fall apart.

That being said, physical beauty should play a small role. True beauty, in my not humble at all opinion, is the combination of all the above.

Thought Hawkeye (Alan Alda) said it best:
"You're built, Lieutenant.You've got a body I'd like to take a lifetime getting to know. And, once I've learned it, I'd like to start at the top and go down to the bottom again, but somewhere in that luscious chemistry are some pretty unappetizing ideas.I don't think I can take the mix. "

[Enigma1999]

. All are required for a successful relationship and if one is lacking then there is a good chance the relationship will fall apart.

I do agree with being able to have physical attraction.

But your lacking statement, hmmm not quite sure I agree with this.

Lets say you are married to a beautiful woman, just stunning, then one day a drunk driver rams into her car leaving her damaged. Then what, you're going to call it all off because her looks are now "lacking"?

[jenniepepsi]

I can see what craven is saying. Though he forgot to mention that beauty is in the eye of the beholder. I am fat, and in my opinion (and several other men I have met) I am NOT very attractive, by average standards. But for all the abuse and cheating my ex husband did, he thought I would beautiful, he loved my body. Obviously not enough. But he thought my rolls and stretch marks were sexy lol.
Some men are like that. There is no one definition of beautiful.


And I LOVE that episode of MASH. I have been in love with hawkeye since I was little, and that episode opened a part of him that showed past his womanizing.

[excon]

Hello h:

I LOVE large labia. It lifts the libido of my Linda Lou, and makes me large... Now, I'm going to "L".

excon

[CravenMorhead]

Lets say you are married to a beautiful woman, just stunning, then one day a drunk driver rams into her car leaving her damaged. Then what, you're going to call it all off because her looks are now "lacking"??

Lacking probably isn't the best phrasing. It is the best I can come up with.

It depends on the person, the situation, and the relationship. Sometimes he "just isn't strong enough" to face it. Other times it is, and Ms. Pepsi suggests, all in the eye of the beholder. When the man looks upon his disfigured woman he sees her as she was before, or learns to love the way she looks. If her physical appearance is still pleasing, even if you look like you got schmucked by the ugly bat, then it will be good. If her physical appearance is not acceptable, then...

It is sad to think that people would end a relationship based up on looks, especially after an accident, but it has happened. There are a few people who will admit to being vain and imperfect and dumping a person like that.

We are also looking at length and degrees of the relationship as well. I can guarantee that I won't look as stunningly sexy as I am when I am 85, the same will go for my partner. Will that physical 'lacking' affect the relationship? Nope.

In the end I suppose that it comes down to what you can accept and what you can't.

An addition point I would like to make is that when you meet a person their first impression of you is your physical outwards appearance. They are looking and judging you as a potential mate. There is no gender specifics, men do it and so do women. When you see two people at the bar and one is beautiful in your eye and the other isn't. Which will you go and chat up? Even if the ugly one is perfect for you in every other way, you will not and talk to the beautiful one.

We judge a lot on physical appearance. It isn't a failing. It is a human trait. It is the poor people that can't see beyond that.

I hope that makes sense.

[Enigma1999]

I hope that makes sense.

Yes. It does. Thank you for explaining. I agree with what Jennie said as well.

You made some valid points.