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    Wonka7 Posts: 4, Reputation: 1
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    May 22, 2010, 12:25 AM
    Someone still in my mind
    Hello I'm japanese sorry if I'm bad english.
    Someone in my mind for 5yrs.we liked each other but he gones to oversea.. I don't know he is back here again.and passed time. 5yrs.. I met many guys this 5yrs ,some guys said me Be my girlfriend.but no one in my mind.. and 1yrs ago someone veryyy did love attack to me.he knows I have someone in my mind 5yrs.but he said me its OK,I want you to like me oneday!! so be my girlfriend.and I have relationship with him for a yr.I feel I like him when I'm with him,but always someone who I can't forget is in my mind.. not my boyfriend in my mind.. is this rude? should be break up with my boyfriend?
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    May 22, 2010, 12:51 AM

    Don't get attached to someone from 5 years ago. You will be disappointed that they are not how you remember them.
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    May 22, 2010, 12:53 AM
    Hi, Wonka7!

    Have you had any contact over the past five years with the person who went overseas, please?

    Thanks!
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    May 22, 2010, 05:40 AM

    Have you kept in touch with the ex?

    If you haven't kept in touch, don't wish and hope your life away. The ex may already be taken. In 5 years, he could be married with kids.

    You've got to focus on today - not 5 years ago.
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    May 22, 2010, 05:55 AM

    Its usually best to leave the past in the past and move on. No its not rude to still wonder about the past, but it may not be wise to let it stop you from being happy in thee present, but never feel guilty for having thoughts about past partners, just don't act on them and cross the lines of good behavior.
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    May 22, 2010, 07:11 AM

    It sounds like you need to let go of the guy! Its been 5 years its time to let go of him. Especially now that he is overseas and you don't know when he'll be back... well.. what's the point of holding on? It seems a bit wasful to me.

    What was the relationship between you and why can't you let go?
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    Oct 11, 2010, 08:41 PM
    Should I breakup with my boyfriend?
    I have boyfriend now.
    I love him but just a little bit.
    Should I breakup?
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    Oct 13, 2010, 01:36 AM
    Wow... this is the most vague question I've seen on here so far. If you're not happy break up with him. It's that simple. If you love him stay with him.
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    Oct 13, 2010, 02:10 AM

    This is not a game. Don't play on with his feelings. So unfair!
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    Oct 24, 2010, 04:03 AM
    If you think that he is not perfect for you then leave him...
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    Oct 24, 2010, 07:37 AM

    If you are having fun and enjoying him, then continue to do so. If you are not, then why live a lie?

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