[Cat1864]

Hmm i think its funny that I can't disagree on something that I DONT AGREE ON! Yes everyone has their own opinions and I DONT AGREE WIth his. SO REALLY I am preety sure I have every right. and it prolly wont hurt his feelings. really he is the one contridicting himself telling me that my bf dont trust me nd then telling me that i dont know how he feels oh but he does???

It's because opinions are supposed to be discussed in the thread. You have to understand that giving dangerous advice or very inaccurate facts is taken extremely seriously here. It is a mark against him whether it 'hurts his feelings' or not.

I doubt you would want someone to put a mark against you just because they didn't like what you thought or how you said it.

[kitten420]

It's because opinions are supposed to be discussed in the thread. You have to understand that giving dangerous advice or very inaccurate facts is taken extremely seriously here. It is a mark against him whether it 'hurts his feelings' or not.

I doubt you would want someone to put a mark against you just because they didn't like what you thought or how you said it.

Okay well thanks for telling me the rules... but I only disagreed because he was actually wrong or I believed him to be wrong.

[Synnen]

And I could disagree with you for breaking the rules and using chat speak--but instead I will gently remind you in the thread that using chat speak is wrong and against the rules.

The word is "because" not "bc".

I tend to treat people who cannot escape from chat speak as if they were 13 and delete their posts--especially in Adult Sexuality, where you must be 18 to post.

I understand that it's habit, but it really is a good idea to READ the rules so you understand how the site works.

[kitten420]

OK

[LOUROMERO8]

Giving a false sense of love is worst than getting dumped or been cheated. Basically you are lying to yourself and your partner. The day you decided to cheated on him a bet it felt good, but now you are paying the piper. No matter how you try to justified your situation, button line is that your relation was over from the date that he find out that you were cheating.
Please get some professional help.

[Cat1864]

Giving a false sense of love is worst than getting dumped or been cheated. Basically you are lying to yourself and your partner. The day you decided to cheated on him a bet it felt good, but now you are paying the piper. No matter how you try to justified your situation, button line is that your relation was over from the date that he find out that you were cheating.
Please get some professional help.

I respectfully disagree. By this rationale, the relationship was over when he cheated. Couples have been known to work through infidelity. It takes a lot of hard work and both partners being open to moving forward. It sounds like both of them are.

Sometimes, the problem is as simple as timing and being tired or being in a rut. Even couples with no history of major problems can have times when their sex life doesn't mesh.

Kitten, as I have said, I am glad you are working things out.

[nosexloveless]

Too the person who said she cheated and that's why he doesn't want sex cause he doesn't look at her the same that's BULL why did she cheat? I don't know maybe because the sex was lacking?? Possibley I've been with my fiancé for 4 years and I have cheated on him numorous times all for the same reason I try and try to getit out of him but its always ugh I too tired or oh not right now we can do it later its like are you kidding me?? On top of that we are trying for chld and you can have children without sex!! Its really hard to deal with it everyday its depressing it makes you feel worthless like everythings your fault but its not its his ! He's the one not putting out and he's the one who cums almost instantly I could talk about this for days but I'm not going to I wish I could give you advice but I cant! Because I need advice on this too I don't want to walk away from him and I hate myself for ever cheating but sometimes I feel that's the only option