[leif_erikson]

My penis is 4 and 3/4 inches long and the circumference is about 4 inches around. Is this satisfactory? I'm still a virgin and so is my girlfriend and we don't plan on sex for at least another 5 years when we're both married so I wouldn't really know much about what's a normal penis size.

I don't think that excessively large penises are very appealing (may hurt the girl) nor do I think that excessively small penises are appealing. (because she may not feel anything) I just want a normal-sized penis. Is the size that I mentioned normal. I've googled the words "average penis size worldwide" and came up with actual legitimate, documented statistics that varies between nations.

penis size results average race & country

From this data, it seems like there are a wide variety of mean penis sizes from 3.8 to 7.1 inches. (and it depends on the country) I'm a black/white guy yet my penis size falls below the average for everyone except for Indians, Chinese and South Koreans. It says that only 0.8% of white guys have a 4.75 inch penis on this next site below:

Average Penis Size

What size is most comforting to women? Is my size good enough? Is it too large or too small to please my future wife? Do women in those places have tighter or shallower vaginas to compensate for the discrepancies among sizes? I need answers. Any at all would be appreciated.

P.S. I'll never consider surgery or pills of any kind so please don't give that answer. I still need to use this for urination and I'm not wiling to risk ruining it.

[JoeCanada76]

You have nothing to worry about. You are made the way you are. The size really does not matter. Please know that your normal and normal size.

[Alty]

First, how old are you?

Second, we all come in different shapes and sizes. Penis size really isn't that important. I've been with both ends of the spectrum, the size isn't important, it's what you do with what you got that counts.

Don't worry too much about it. It is what it is, can't change it, so just accept it. The rest will fall into place when you're ready to take the next step. :)

[leif_erikson]

I'm 20 years old. OK, I guess that 4.75 inches isn't so bad if you put it that way. As long as it can be pleasurable for both of us and isn't hopelessly doomed, I'm satisfied.

[Fr_Chuck]

First while I doubt you are 20, by 20 most men know that size has little to do with any pleasure. And that foreplay is the real answer to so many issues

[Alty]

First while I doubt you are 20, by 20 most men know that size has little to do with any pleasure. And that foreplay is the real answer to so many issues

Chuck, he said he's waiting for marriage. It very well could be that his religion doesn't allow for a lot of discussion about sex.

I'm willing to give him the benefit of the doubt. :)

[Gemini54]

Are you talking about your penis size, flaccid or erect?

Size depends on your level of arousal, the weather, the temperature, your mood, etc - my husband's penis never looks the same size - it just depends.

I wouldn't place too much emphasis on the size of your penis as the sole indicator of sexual pleasure - sex is so much more than a penis in a vagina. So much more.

[Catsmine]

This question has been well and fully answered. Your next question, leif, should be about how to develop your lovemaking techniques and remain true.

Here's a good place to start:
Intro to Tantric Sex

[Carl17]

It's not the size of the boat, It's the motion of the ocean.

[leif_erikson]

Thank you everyone for the advice. I really am 20 years old. Like Altenweg said, my Roman Catholic religion has some influence over my sexuality. You guys are actually right that the actual lovemaking is what really makes sex a pleasurable experience. It's supposed to be the greatest physical feeling and should only be shared with someone special to you. (your spouse) However, the physical stimulation in itself still remains a significant factor and that was the factor that I was worried about.

P.S.: I agree with the article posted by Catsmine. Thanks.

[Cat1864]

Leif, I just want to say that you are asking a general question about a specific instance. What women (a general term) like or don't like doesn't really matter. What does matter is what your girlfriend/fiancée (a specific term) likes or doesn't like. As long as you are compatible and building a life together, there isn't any reason to be concerned about what some hypothetical female thinks about your genitalia.

You are building the foundation for a life together. Communication is an important tool in making it strong and stable. Work on being able to discuss what you think and feel about many subjects. Make your sex life one of those subjects. Just because you aren't having intercourse doesn't mean you can't discuss your concerns and expectations for when you do.

[headraccoon]

Your size is just fine. Don't compare yourself with anyone else especially porn stars. Everything will work out fine

[Aurora_Bell]

I haven't read any of the other posts, sorry. But have you ever heard the saying it's not the size of the dog in the fight, but the size of the fight in the dog? Well that kind of holds true for sex as well. I have been with both, large, small and somewhere in between. The most pleasurable sex was with a man who was average, but it was not the size, it was the way he looked at me, touched me, the way he made me feel before and after.

He made sure my needs were met, and in return I was more than willing to fulfill his needs, which ended in the best sex I have ever had.

When you feel comfortable and trust the partner you are with, it makes all the difference. No one wants to feel used, so making her feel special, and knowing that you guys are both in this togethe and losing your virginity together, when you BOTH are ready and comfortable will make it special and enjoyable all in it's self.

[Larken85]

I can't prove this as I am not an expert in human anatomy but don't you only have to be about 3 inches long to pleasure a woman with your penis? I was told that somewhere and I have always thought it to be true.

I don't know, I personally don't rely on Mr. Happy for all that much except for me. I do the talking with a much more skilled body part. Not to mention intamacy has a lot more to do with just basic touch and trust than anything else in my opinion.

[Alty]

I have to expand on what Larken just said.

The penis is more for the man. A woman's pleasure doesn't have as much to do with a penis as it has to do with her mind.

Women are emotional, men are more physical. The majority of women never experience an orgasm from vaginal sex, so the size of a mans organ really doesn't play a big part.

Larken is right, a three inch penis will hit all the right "spots" but a woman's mind has to be turned on before her body will respond.

The link Catsmine provided is golden. If you read that, follow that, then the size of your penis won't be an issue, big or small.

I said it before, I'll say it again, I've been with men that fall into all categories, big and small. The men with a big penis weren't necessarily better lovers, it's what you do with what you've got and how you get into a woman's head, not her pants, that matters.

[hungtoronto]

What size is most comforting to women? Is my size good enough? Is it too large or too small to please my future wife? Do women in those places have tighter or shallower vaginas to compensate for the discrepancies among sizes? I need answers. Any at all would be appreciated.

Size does not matter when it come to pleasure women, it's a combination of talking, touching and penetration. However length does limit the number of sex position you want to do.

[hungtoronto]

Altenweg agrees : That is true. Still, it's not the size of the stick, it's the magic in the wand. :).

Yeah remind me of that movie "What Planet Are You From?"

[smoothy]

12" won't get you anywhere if you are minute man or just don't know what to do with it.

Make the most of what you have.

Besides Pills only make your wallet lighter.

[anteccomp]

Hi there,
I just wanted to say that you should really stop worrying about penis size. I have been with guys with large penises and it has not been enjoyable (it can be very painful for women). All of the sensitive nerve endings are within the first inch or so of a women's vagina (case in point - most women including myself can be completed satisfied with a guy's tongue that doesn't penetrate more than an inch or so). It's all about what you do with it and how you make her feel.

I respect that you are a religious guy but I would point out that I think sex will be a huge letdown if you wait 5 years for it. My 1st time was so bad and painful (partially due to the guy's large penis size) that I never wanted to do it again. Sex is truly something that gets better as you and your partner get better at it together and putting so much pressure on the first time may lead you both to be very disappointed.

[ja77]

Hi all penis come in different colours - sizes and shapes what you have is normal and as long as its all in working order you have got nothing to worry about.

I think us males care more about what's down there than the girls do !