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Jan 26, 2010, 03:36 AM
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Im 25 he's 33 is this wrong is he to old for me?
Is he is too old for me?
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Uber Member
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Jan 26, 2010, 05:31 AM
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Please add more information about your relationship.
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Software Expert
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Jan 26, 2010, 05:49 AM
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Originally Posted by Anna5555
Is he is too old for me?
You tell us. Why do you ask this question? Where is it coming from?
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Computer Expert and Renaissance Man
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Jan 26, 2010, 06:12 AM
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At your ages, this is not a big difference, but the fact that you are asking the question means something bothers you about the relationship. So you need to do some soul searching to figure out what that is.
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New Member
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Jan 28, 2010, 03:23 AM
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Im just worried what other people plus family are going to think?
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Uber Member
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Jan 28, 2010, 03:45 AM
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If that's your only worry I wouldn't be anxious.
At your respective ages the age difference shouldn't be a problem.
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BossMan
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Jan 28, 2010, 03:48 AM
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In all honesty age shouldn't be an issue in this.
There's 7 years between my wife and I and it has never been a problem.
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Software Expert
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Jan 28, 2010, 09:23 AM
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I think 25 years old is old enough to stop being so overly influenced by other's opinions, even other family members. Growing up means doing what you believe is best, regardless of the inconvenient responses of others.
If that's your only concern, deep breaths... onward.
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Senior Member
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Jan 28, 2010, 02:26 PM
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Do you feel like the age is a problem? Are you guys on the same page? (I don't know how long you've been together), but is one of you ready for kids and the other isn't? Sometimes age can be a problem if you aren't at the same place in life.
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Ultra Member
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Jan 28, 2010, 03:11 PM
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It's up to you. If age is a problem, end the relationship, if you don't care, then work at the relationship. But either way you need to be happy, who cares what other people think.
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Expert
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Jan 28, 2010, 03:31 PM
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Why does what others think matter to you ? What do you think about it, is it bothering you some ?
My wife is more than 10 years younger than me, and I know some with larger gaps
After you get over 20 and now 25 the age difference is not near as important as other factors.
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Software Expert
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Jan 29, 2010, 12:11 AM
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I would respectfully disagree with anyone who states "What does it matter what others think?" or even stronger "What others think doesn't matter."
I believe that to be incorrect and misleading. We are social creatures. We absolutely exert influence on one another, and we should. Else, what would the point of even this forum be?
No, I say listen to what others have to say, listen intently, filter out the crazy emotion everyone salts their opinions with and listen to the content, the vital content.
So many bad choices are made in life because we simply are not willing to listen to the good input of others. You absolutely MUST listen and give your mates the chance to influence you.
But in the end, you need to make an informed decision. Just make sure it is an informed one, and not an "I don't care what anyone thinks" one.
Listen, and listen well.
THEN, decide for yourself what you believe is the best thing to do, even it is completely at odds with the contrary advice you may be getting. You need to hear the content and still be unconvinced.
Care. Care a lot. But then decide for yourself, intelligently.
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