[jaime90]

Is it normal to think about, or be curious about sexual expirimentation with the same sex when you KNOW you are straight? (ie. Having a threesome?) How about thinking about a sex change? (ie. What is sex like for a woman/man?) And wanting to try it? I'm wondering if anyone who is straight has conversations about these curiosities with their partner, or if they've had the same thoughts..

[Boricua1]

I am a straight woman... have had my share of experimentation... for fanatsy's sake.. not necessarily gender confusion or sexuality... always wanted men, thought grils were hot because heck we are... (Anyway I guess that's pretty striaght) Always even a bit boy crazy so not into girls... but anyway back to the point...

Maybe I'm a wierdo.. but my greatest fantasy would be to experience sex as a man... in fact, I think when I would even fantasize in my mind, I always had a hard time sexually visualizing intercourse from the female perspective even though I am a female.. in my mind I invision myself as a female... and I NEVER had any fantasies about strappin onto a man.. or pentrating a man...

I guess I just don't emotionally internalize my sexual fantasies from a penetration factor.. I always felt like somehow... it should have been the other way around just naturally for me in my head... I'm more of a matural picther.. than a catcher.. and NO I'm NOT controlling or DOM or anything.. or some mega butch in a girls bod... or anything.. I can't really describe it just to say that always I've kind of felt more like I should have been a pitcher... like I wish I was the one giving the experience rather than receiving.. or I imagine my role as more graphically involved in the sexual prcess than a "hole" can provide.. if that makes any sense whatsoever...

I'm reading that back myself and it doesn't make sense.. LOL...

So let me try again... In the threesome fantasy I felt most strange about being with a girl not because I was with a girl... but because I couldn't figure it out cause I don't have a penis... I imagine something is just missing if I can't penetrate.. but not like fake.. like dildo.. but really a penis..

Oh god.. now I feel like it reads like I'm crazy.. LOL. I may regret posting this. LOL

[jaime90]

Makes sense to me. I figured I would regret asking the question because people would think I wasn't straight because I've imagined expirimenting, etc. And I TOTALLY get where you're coming from with most of your post.