Hi carrie,
Is it possible for you to post some photos, maybe that could help anyone trying to help you.
Thanks.
EDIT:
Carrie,
If you are also looking into making a few changes to the whole space in order to make it lighter airier, you might consider a change of colour.
Pale colours make a room seem less crowded, if you could use different shades of the same light colour around the room it works even better.
Like the walls a few shades lighter than the ceiling, and using the same colour even when you are adding furniture and/or accessories like rugs,wall hangings etc.
Choose the lightest two shades on a paint color strip.
Good lighting will also help make a room seem airy.
Maybe you could even try this ,a fake skylight.
http://farm4.static.flickr.com/3039/...910c3c.jpg?v=0
Just a few ideas.