[davep5]

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I'm going off to college in August and I met a girl at the beginning of summer. When we first saw each other we connected. We both kind of wanted a summer hook up, but we both ended up having strong feelings for each other. And she decided to be friends for a while. She went to Florida for a week. And now were back together going out.. its kind of a weird thing but give your opinion about it.

Also is it hard for a girl to be really attached to a guy knowing that in a month or two we'll be going separate ways whether we want to or not when she has strong feelings for him?

Leave your comments...

[prttynpnk1105]

Its kind of a chance to take when you want to just hook up for a certain amount of time because it is always that chance of a real connection happening. If you two really have a connection then it is going to be really hard leaving each other.

[I wish]

There's only so many weeks left in the summer. You can either spend it:

1) Worrying about your future with her.
2) Enjoy the time that you spend with you.

I'd go with number 2. Worry about the future when it arrives, until then, just enjoy the time that you spend together!

[Torrid13]

I'm going through a similar situation right now (although neither of us have said specifically we just want to hook up--that's not how I roll) but his college is 40 minutes away from mine.

We connect really well and there's some major attraction, but whether it's going to go beyond the summer... I have to say I doubt. If it does, great, if not, we've had some good times.

I suggest you do the same. Be glad you got to spend the time with her, and use the rest of the summer enjoying the time with her. If it turns out that you guys really are ridiculously fond of each other and can't let go, then discuss your options from there.

But also be realistic in the situation, and realize that once school starts, or whatever, there's a whole bunch of new people you both will meet. Don't worry. Just sit back, relax, and whatever happens, happens.

Everything will work out as it should.

[davep5]

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Me and a girl have been dating for a few months... recent we've fallen in love with each other and are very attached to each other. I lied about a past girlfriend to her and now my present girlfriend is mad at me for it which I can understand... ive appoligized and addmitted I screwed up. Any advice for me?

[adam_89]

Just hope for the best on everything. Buy her flowers, give her a card, take her out to a nice restaurant. You never know where it might get you but it might not make her so mad anymore and she will probably see you care about her.

[kctiger]

You have apologized... give her time to relax and calm down to see where this may lead. Flowers aren't a bad idea but I would let things smooth over for a bit before doing anything like that.

[davep5]

Thanks... she thinks I don't care.. but I realllyy doo

[adam_89]

Prove it to her then. We don't know that. Only you do and only you can make her know that. So show her how much you love her and care for her.

[talaniman]

Looks like the summer romance is over, and she used the lie you told as a reason to end it. Don't know if its worth pursuing. When does she leave for school?

Your threads were merged so all the full details could be understood.

[davep5]

The day before I do... like 10 days from now

[crisluvsu731]

It isn't hard when you are with a great guy. How far apart will you be?

[adam_89]

I think she thought it was best to cut it short instead of dragging it on and just hurting each of your feelings more.

Probably the right thing to do.