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    Apr 20, 2009, 05:04 AM
    Can an ex-boyfriend who supported me try to get money back?
    Can an ex-boyfriend who supported me try to get money back?
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    Apr 20, 2009, 05:39 AM

    You will have to explain further. If they were loans of money and you signed papers, then yes, but if this was money given in good faith I don't see how he can.

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    Apr 20, 2009, 05:57 AM

    What were the terms under which he supported you? He would support you forever, until you found employment, you were to pay him back - ?

    Need more info.

    Keep in mind that verbal agreements ARE binding in the US - if you are in the US - and some of this will come down to your word against his.
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    Apr 20, 2009, 08:36 AM
    If a boyfriend gave me pin code for his ATM card, is it OK for me to take money?
    If a boyfriend gave me pin code for his ATM card, is it OK for me to take money?
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    Apr 20, 2009, 08:39 AM
    No.
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    Apr 20, 2009, 08:39 AM
    Absolutely not!
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    Apr 20, 2009, 08:41 AM

    Take is the operative word here and so NO!
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    Apr 20, 2009, 08:46 AM

    Without his consent that makes you a thief.

    ATM pin doesn't equal consent.

    You need to talk to your boyfriend if you would like to borrow money from him.
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    Apr 20, 2009, 09:03 AM

    This should be combined with the other thread - all of the information isn't posted in either place. My answer on other thread is incorrect. I thought OP was asking about rent/utilities. Apparently she was not.

    And the answer to this is that any withdrawals which are not approved by the boyfriend turn into he said/she said (and he's an ex boyfriend on the other thread) and criminal activity.

    https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/small-...ck-343705.html
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