[iluvmypoochgrif]

Okay... here goes!! My boyfriend has broken up with me twice and I have broken up with him once... we've been going out for about 10 months and we're still going strong... BUT!! He seems to be flirting with other girls and he admits it. Then he started telling me that we should get married... (movin a little too fast buddy lol!) then he said that we should break up for one night then get back together in the morning... I said no but I don't know why he asked me that. Was he like going to hve sex with someone else that night and didn't want to cheat on me?! And the most confusing thing is that he buys me sooo much stuff and he tells me he loves me all the time and he is sooooooo romantic I could just eat him up!! :D can som1 tell me wats going on!!

[skydive4life]

I definitely think he wanted to hook up with someone else.. y else would he ask to break up for one night... this guys a loser you deserve better..

[dazzling]

Keep a journal, a word for word version of what goes on each day in the relationship. Like your feelings before each break up--, what was going on? How he made you feel the night when he said you break up. (if in your gut you think he was going to cheat on u, u know it is true.. our guts don't lie)

In a good relationship you would not be confused. You would know exactly how he feels about you and you know if you will be together or not. The fact that he makes you feel insecure is not good for u.

See a lot of guys like to play games until they have met the right one, he may have feelings for you but still want to play other girls..

It is your up to you to decide what is acceptable. THat's why in your journal if you notice more bad feelings about him than good. Time to end it.

Good luck.