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    ilimen Posts: 1, Reputation: 1
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    Dec 26, 2008, 12:24 AM
    Clingy Husband
    My car is broken, Husband drives me to work & picks me up. Often likes to bring me lunch...
    He has his own business so he has the time. He gets hurt because sometimes I don't want him to bring me lunch... Hes sometimes parked outside for awhile before he has to pick me up. When we are home.. His days off are my days off. He makes me Breakfast lunch &
    Dinner... If I am upstairs he's upstairs... If I start cleaning he'll start cleaning if I start repairs he will start repairing... If I don't feel well... He will be on the couch all day with me...

    He even likes to eat everything that I like to eat!! What the Hell is wrong with him!! We have been married 19years and this has gotten really bad in the last 2 years... Argg..
    He gets upset when I tell him to give me my alone time.. Then he is moody and snappy with the family... Can someone please give me advise. :confused: :(
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    Dec 26, 2008, 07:42 AM

    Let me see a helpful husband, who helps around the house ? Humm

    Why not buy another car, or repair your car and get some independence ?

    And what sort of business, tell him to get off his >>>>> and get to doing more work to pay for you another car.
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    Dec 26, 2008, 12:01 PM

    He really has a problem, and he is driving you crazy, girl!

    Time to go to couple's counselling. He needs some self knowledge so he can change, and I don't think he would go for counselling without you.

    Good Luck!
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