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    Dec 16, 2008, 04:28 PM
    Pregnant don't know who's the father
    I just found out I'm pregnant my lmp was on 11/14/08 I had a one night stand on 11/23 with out protection and then I had sex with my husband on 11/24-11/30 and so on can my baby's father be the onenight stand or is it more possible that is my husbands help please don't know what to do ?
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    Dec 16, 2008, 04:35 PM
    There is no way to tell until the child is born and a paternity test is done.
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    Dec 16, 2008, 04:36 PM

    I guess you'll have to wait and see who the baby looks like!
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    Dec 16, 2008, 05:31 PM

    The dates are too close together. You will have to wait until the baby is born.

    I think you should be honest with your husband about what happened in case the baby is not his... it won't be a surprise for him later.

    I know it would be hard to do this, but it is the right thing to do. :)
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    Dec 17, 2008, 09:00 AM

    You already know that you're pregnant? That's pretty quick. Do you usually have 28 day cycles?
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    Dec 17, 2008, 09:12 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by GirlWSlingshot View Post
    You already know that you're pregnant? That's pretty quick. Do you usually have 28 day cycles?
    I found out just as quick too. The baby was conceived on the 21st of August and I found out the 15th of September.
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    Dec 17, 2008, 11:25 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by southerngalps View Post
    i found out just as quick too. the baby was conceived on the 21st of august and i found out the 15th of september.
    I had a similar experience. I got my first positive hpt 9 days after conception. But experiences like ours are usually the exceptions to the rule.
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    Dec 17, 2008, 12:35 PM

    I probably could have found out sooner than the 15th, but delayed taking the test. I was 7 days late.

    The four pregnancies I have had my harmones are always there and strong... I probably could find out before my missed period :) but always wait!
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    Dec 22, 2008, 06:17 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by rosie7285 View Post
    i just found out im pregnant my lmp was on 11/14/08 i had a one night stand on 11/23 with out protection and then i had sex with my husband on 11/24-11/30 and so on can my baby's father be the onenight stand or is it more possible that is my husbands help please dont know what to do ?
    I think the bigger question here is why you are trying to get pregnant, when you cheated on your husband and had unprotected sex, when it was possible you could be already pregnant? You could possibly have gotten an STD from this "one night stand." You knew you and your husband were trying to get pregnant. Do you care so little about your husband and your unborn child? STD's can be passed on to your baby. You asked for help with what to do? Well, First you need to tell your husband NOW! Second, you need to care enough about your baby not to have unprotected sex while cheating on him. Third, you need to inform Mr. "one night stand" that he could possibly be a daddy! Fourth, you need to take your marriage seriously, or let your husband find someone who will.
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