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    sasha123 Posts: 15, Reputation: 5
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    Dec 16, 2008, 12:22 PM
    My boyfriend don't do foreplay and I need it .
    My boyfriend of 5 years go straight to the point when making love I need foreplay before and after especially after.. when I tell him he tells me your still a baby for him foreplay means to cuddle me how can I make him change his mind?
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    Dec 16, 2008, 12:24 PM

    Just flat out and tell him what it means.
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    Dec 16, 2008, 12:25 PM
    How old are the two of you?
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    Dec 16, 2008, 12:43 PM

    Maybe if he is that dense you should consider moving on to someone who actually cares for you and your needs before his.
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    Dec 16, 2008, 01:03 PM

    He's a jerk... tell him no touchy, touchy without some licky, licky first. And stick to it.
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    Dec 16, 2008, 01:04 PM

    Im25 and he is 25 too 6 months younger though I'm not consider leaving him cause I love him...
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    Dec 16, 2008, 01:05 PM

    It is easy, he gets no sex until you are ready. I can't see any problem except you don't know how to say no.
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    Dec 16, 2008, 01:06 PM
    He does the licky licky part,and quite often I'm most speaking about the touching I like him when he touches me hair legs ecc
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    Dec 16, 2008, 01:45 PM

    Grab him by his ears, and tell him do it right, or not at all.
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    Dec 16, 2008, 02:02 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by sasha123 View Post
    he does the licky licky part,and quite often im most speaking about the touching i like him when he touches me hair legs ecc
    OK, tell him more touchy touchy before he gets to go licky licky... and to not even think about going squishy squishy until the other two requiements are met.


    Trust me... stick to your guns and he will do it... do it enough and it will become a habit. Then he will learn. If he's horny he'll do it.

    Say nothing and he will assume all is fine as it is.
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    Dec 16, 2008, 02:33 PM

    I try maybe I'm a bit babish as well and like to be cuddled all the time like he say but I tell him to cuddle me more thanks for your suggestions
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    Dec 16, 2008, 03:55 PM

    Don't you sleep in your boyfriend's arms all night... or turn and hold him in your arms??

    That is the cuddling, closeness part... and quite lovely.

    IF you are just having sex in exchange for cuddling... time to talk to a professional about your needy state. Get everything straightened out in your mind so you understand yourself and can get some personal growth at age 25.

    Best wishes, :)
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