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talaniman · Dec 10, 2008, 09:41 AM

More info, you know better.

Mac Lovin · Dec 10, 2008, 09:45 AM

Originally Posted by talaniman

More info, you know better.

No not my ex, a girl who I recently met who wants me but wants to end it with her current bfriend before she wants anything to happen... she would have done it sooner only he got final exams...

So to a women is a few two/three?

kctiger · Dec 10, 2008, 09:46 AM

I wouldn't even talk to her. NEVER date a girl in this kind of circumstance... NEVER!!

Mac Lovin · Dec 10, 2008, 09:50 AM

Originally Posted by kctiger

I wouldn't even talk to her. NEVER date a girl in this kind of circumstance...NEVER!!!

Why?

Tuscany · Dec 10, 2008, 09:52 AM

Sounds like she is leading you on. I would use whatever time it is to seriously think about if this is the type of relationship you would want to be in.

kctiger · Dec 10, 2008, 09:52 AM

Because it sets up poorly for you. If she can just leave someone for you that quickly, do you honestly think she is relationship material? Nothing good can come of this, nothing. I don't care how you spin it. I have seen this before, and it is bad news.

Romefalls19 · Dec 10, 2008, 09:55 AM

If she's shopping at other stores when she is already a preferred customer at another place, do you really think she won't continue to do it?

You aren't even the latest, I bet she has a few guys dangling on this line.

kctiger · Dec 10, 2008, 09:56 AM

She is for sure a midnight madness shopper.

Tuscany · Dec 10, 2008, 10:00 AM

I call people like this monkeys... they won't let go of one branch before they have a grasp on another.

Mac Lovin · Dec 10, 2008, 10:17 AM

Do ye reckon she will come for me or is she just playing me?

I asked her did she want me, she replied yes of course I do, do you want me?

She told me I will hear from here in a few weeks when she sorts out all her crap...

What do ye think?

wolfgangqpublic · Dec 10, 2008, 10:38 AM

Originally Posted by Mac Lovin

Do ye reckon she will come for me or is she just playing me?

I asked her did she want me, she replied yes of course i do, do you want me?

She told me i will hear from here in a few weeks when she sorts out all her crap.....

What do ye think?

Of course she wants you on some level... for now.

But people always tell you who they are, and their past behaviour is a great indicator of future behaviour. Take my ex for example. I knew early on that she'd had more boyfriends (although the vast majority were non-sexual owing to age) than any other woman around our age I'd met (of who's relationship history I was aware) and that she had a hard time maintaining relationships in the long-run as she had dumped all of them eventually, even if the longevity varied and she'd never cheated. I tried hard, we worked well for a long time but eventually I ended up where all the rest of the guys were even if it lasted longer than them.

Don't ignore past behaviour, because people don't change who they fundamentally are without major effort and introspection. She will almost certainly do the same to you that she is doing to him.

satswid · Dec 10, 2008, 10:44 AM

May be she's bored of the current relationship and wanted someone who really cares. So go ahead but don't show much curiousity and even if she's playing with u, if u love her truly, love can turn even make a stone cry

kctiger · Dec 10, 2008, 10:46 AM

First of all, there is no way you LOVE her yet. If you do, then you are a complete fool! I don't mean to sound harsh, but protect yourself. Maybe she's board of the current relationship?? Are you kidding me? We call those people that jump from relationship to relationship when they get 'bored' whores! Guys and girls! Take offense if you want, but don't buy into all this BS...

satswid · Dec 10, 2008, 10:53 AM

Respected kctiiger
You can never make a general statement about a person, you haven't even met or talked. It may differ from person to person. I think u had a tough experience, but it can be a different case here

kctiger · Dec 10, 2008, 10:55 AM

I am talking about character in general. It is the same for everyone. You DO NOT want to be the guy who breaks up another relationship. That isn't a healthy way to start a relationship, period.

satswid · Dec 10, 2008, 11:06 AM

But have you thought that the guy who is in relationship with the girl can be a playboy. There is a possibility of that

kctiger · Dec 10, 2008, 11:09 AM

The guy in this instance isn't the one who is cheating. The girl is cheating on her current boyfriend right now, maybe not physically, but emotionally. So, I ask you, would you want a cheater to break up with her boyfriend so you could date her?

satswid · Dec 10, 2008, 11:20 AM

Almost every other person in this world is a cheater.
I ask you that even if u get a perfect girl, is there any guarantee for her to remain the same throughout her life?

kctiger · Dec 10, 2008, 11:23 AM

What are you saying? You think every other person in the world is a cheater? Why would you take a chance on a proven cheater, when there are other girls out there without a boyfriend who have NEVER cheated? He needs to be looking out for himself, and not chasing a girl with a boyfriend already. That is classless on both himself and her.

Tuscany · Dec 10, 2008, 11:24 AM

Originally Posted by satswid

Almost every other person in this world is a cheater.
I ask you that even if u get a perfect girl, is there any guarantee for her to remain the same throughout her life?

Wow that is a huge generalization... I guess I have more hope in humanity then you do. People do change... and there is not such thing as a perfect girl or guy for that matter!