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Nov 20, 2008, 06:53 PM
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How come my boyfriend couldn't stay hard?
So the other day my boyfriend and I had amazing sex and later we decided to try again.
But for some reason he could not stay hard. We tried oral sex and a hand job, but it just didn't work. We've been together for 3 years and this has never happened. Can someone help us out, tell us what happened? And how we can make it so that it doesn't happen again.
Lol. Thanks in advaced.
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Nov 20, 2008, 08:08 PM
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Originally Posted by jennifer1010
So the other day my boyfriend and i had amazing sex and later we decided to try again.
But for some reason he could not stay hard. We tried oral sex and a hand job, but it just didnt work. We've been together for 3 years and this has never happend. Can someone help us out, tell us what happend? and how we can make it so that it doesnt happen again.
lol. Thanks in advaced.
To make sure it never happens he will have to get an implant.
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Nov 20, 2008, 08:23 PM
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Sometimes, thoughts during activity can play a huge part in the physical side of things. If the mind wanders, for some men, instead of concentrating on something --stimulating--, chances are they will lose their firmness. Make sure you include him, and concentrate, if you have to, on keeping his head in the game (pun intended). After you get him in on it, then you can shift back to a more balanced act.
Bottom line is: Keep him on his toes. Keep him in on it, just oral sex may not be enough to keep him mentally there.
Also, don't feel bad about it. Everyone goes embarassingly soft at one point or another (for men). Sure it's a bummer, but unless it's a continuous trend, it's nothing to worry about.
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Junior Member
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Nov 21, 2008, 01:00 PM
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It happened once and already you're freaking out? Oh yes, certainly stressing the fact will help him a lot!
Give it a rest. Pretend it never happened. Come back in a month or so when you've got a real issue on your hands.
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Nov 21, 2008, 02:26 PM
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He was tired, he drank too much, he was dehydrated, he had an important meeting the next day, he had a bad day, his favorite football team lost last Sunday, it was Tuesday, he had a headache, he was sore...
Could be anything. And couldn't matter less. You said you had already gone. Anything after that would be bonus anyway. I wish I were 18 again and could go 5 times a night. But I'm not.
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Ultra Member
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Nov 24, 2008, 04:08 PM
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I think he was just tired of it.
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