[De4rest]

I am not sure what it is but I just feel so alone and have no one that will back me up or support me during bad or good times. I mean, I know some people, talk to them as friends but I dun feel that they really care about me as I care much about them. I don't know what it is but I constantly have different friends from time to time. I wish I could have my steady best friends but it is just not the case for me. Then, I try to make the effort to get close to them by calling them and asking them out but still here I am feeling lonely. They never called me back or asking me out too, so is there something wrong with me or what :confused:?? Any suggestions?? I just want to have good friends that I can share my life with :(

[Junction_Girl]

First of all I would just like to know how old you are. It sounds as if you may be under the age of 18 or so. I would suggest that you talk to your parents about how you are feeling. There are medications that could help pull you out this over whelming feeling of sadness and depression. When I was 16 I felt exactly the same way you feel now. What makes it harder is that as you get older and you're interests change, so do people around you. Look it is hard enough knowing exactly who you are and what you really want in your life right now, much less worrying whether or not people like you are want to the same kinds of the things you like. Get yourself straight and you will find that things will just kind of fall into place for you. Talking about your feelings always seems to help. Trust me your parents will always be there to talk to you and love you no matter what! Good luck... Terrie

[liz28]

I learned in life the only person you can depend on in this world in you. People will let you down and sometimes you just can't depend on people. Your fiends might be busy because everyone has their own problems to deal with in life.

Instead of feeling lonely get up and out and do some things that you would enjoy. I did something's that I thought I would never do and my friends thought I was crazy. I went to the movies by myself in the past when I couldn't find someone to go with me, I went bowling, etc. I even went clothes shopping by myself and that how I meant one of my closest friend. You can wait for things to happen you have to make them happen. This world is big and fill of people, so get out and explore.

If you think a problem is ocurring from this, then join a support group or seek counseling. There's nothing wrong with seeing one. Be active, do some volunteer work, take up a hobbie, etc.
Do something that you enjoy.

[katringette22]

I was very much like this about a year ago( I'm 17 now) and the only thing that I was really able to open up to was paper so I started writing poems about life. Now I see a close guy friend going though the same and it hrd to help him though it.I love him to death but his feeling arnt a strong.

[brelee]

Take it easy~ I think many people in this world feel themselves longly.When you think you longly and abandon by your friends, they may also feel longly for anybody else or anything else.

You should not expect someone is always here by your side.Everyone has their own life.

[vev_pro]

Hey you at least have friends time to time but I am alone for past 7yrs.everybody has avoided me.