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    zolfy Posts: 1, Reputation: 1
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    Aug 25, 2008, 12:36 PM
    Do you think there is a chance?
    I'm a 25 year old male, and about 3 months ago my ex and I broke up. The funny thing is I broke it off with her because she was being very difficult and did not seem to want to see things from position. After a month I began to miss her like crazy, but she had no desire to want to speak with me. So I fought a bit more, still had the same results and I decided to give her some time. I realized she blocked me from MSN and we had no contact. This all occurred during this summer, where I'm sure she just wanted to party and enjoy herself. A whole month went by, when all of the sudden her name popped up on MSN. I took this as a possibility that she was all right to communicate with me again. So we started chatting on MSN and had a good long conversation, and we agreed to meet. So in the next week (which was last week) we met for coffee and she seemed to be very comfortable around me. After that, I didn't want to be the only person to contact her and she can be very stubborn, so we have not spoken since but she left for a holiday 3 days ago. Do you believe she is still somewhat interested? Or do you believe she just wants to be friends?
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    Aug 25, 2008, 12:42 PM
    Sounds like she just got over the break up and wants to be civil, probably not friends
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    Aug 25, 2008, 02:37 PM
    I agree with Rome,

    I wouldn't get my hopes up too much. It sounds like she is just being polite and not trying to cause trouble. I wouldn't read too much into it.
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    Aug 25, 2008, 03:07 PM
    Friends is as far as it goes.
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    Aug 25, 2008, 03:24 PM
    Sorry, sounds like friendship to me.
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    Aug 25, 2008, 03:41 PM
    It doesn't matter anymore if she still likes you. She's doing you a favor. Its hard to adjust so better not to contact her.
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    Aug 25, 2008, 08:02 PM
    It sounds like she doesn't want to know you and has moved on in her life
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    Aug 25, 2008, 10:44 PM
    Don't put your hopes too high.

    She may change herself and cut ties with you.

    That happened with me and my ex.. turned into a total 8itch
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    Aug 26, 2008, 07:20 AM
    She may have decided to meet you to see what's going on. It sounds like you might want a second chance or she could have agreed to met you to prove something to herself. If she's ignoring you now mostly likely that what it was and don't even seem like she wants to be friends.
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