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    AManWithNoName Posts: 424, Reputation: 9
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    #1

    Aug 24, 2008, 09:42 PM
    My best friends Girl Friend!
    Well here it goes, one of my really close friends and I hang out a lot, so you that was cool until he started to bring his girlfreind, wich shouldn't really be a problum right, wrong, it is. This girl ( let's just call her jane doe and my pal john doe) and I have known each other for a few months and we get along fine and well I kind of had a crush on good ol' Janey for a while, but she allways is a huge tease to me and flirts with me when ever john doe is around, and to tell the truth I kind of like it, so I have three questions, 1; should I feel bad, 2; what on gods geeen earth do I do, and C; should I ask her to hang out, you know just me and her, PLEASE HELP
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    Aug 24, 2008, 09:46 PM
    1. Should you feel bad.. probably not, I mean... unless you're reciprocating these things and your friend is getting angry... then it's really out of your control, no?

    2. You can NOT reciprocate the actions... you can leave the room... or you can just avoid it.

    C. no. If he's really your close friend, then you should NEVER get between him and his girl. If you find yourself liking her, then distance yourself from her. The girl may not last forever, but the friend might... so it's not even worth it.
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    Aug 25, 2008, 05:45 AM
    Agree with Sneezy on all points... She is off limits as she is your good friends girl. That's plain wrong
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    Aug 25, 2008, 05:56 AM
    1; should I feel bad,
    No, as long as you stay within the boundaries of friendship, and respect.
    2; what on gods green earth do I do, and
    Keep your friendship intact and leave his g/f alone, polite and friendly is enough toward her, or leave, when you think its out of hand.
    C; should I ask her to hang out, you know just me and her,
    No thats going behind your friends back, never over a female. Just because she flirts, don't mean she likes you, and backing away is the thing to do.
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    Aug 25, 2008, 10:28 AM
    You have the power - draw the line on this "flirting". Do not jeopardize your friendship with Mr. John Doe for some chick (just by how she's acting now tells you what to expect if ever). DO NOT ask her out, that's a NO-NO and you know better than that, right? Think of the consequences.
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    Aug 25, 2008, 06:46 PM
    What does your friend say when his so called girl is flirting with you? Also, are you sure she' not just playing because I've a friend like this. If your friend does notice it, he must think she's playing or don't care. Just curious to how she's flirting with you. Also, maybe you should address this issue with your friend and see what he say or think about it.

    Also, if she's trying to get with you, your friend needs to get rid of her and this should make you not want to even consider being with her. She's is bad news.
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    Aug 25, 2008, 07:31 PM
    Rule no 1- NEVER EVER TRY IT ON your mates gal,no gal is worth losing your mate over.he's been there longer than her,and she is off limits to you!
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    Aug 25, 2008, 07:37 PM
    U may like her but you have known your friend longer and you wouldn't like if he liked your girlfriend if you had one so wats more important your friend ship or a girl
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    Aug 25, 2008, 07:51 PM
    Ha!

    Girls will be girls...don't be mad, sad or glad. it's just a flirty girl.


    LEAVE HER BE BRO - that's how a man rolls.

    It may even be funny if you think about it. She can flail away and stroke your ego, but that's enough stroking from her :-)
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    Aug 25, 2008, 07:55 PM
    Thanks every one for the helpful criticism, and when I say that I mean thanks for making me look like a jack , I'm kidding of course

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