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    ranjani28 Posts: 1, Reputation: 1
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    Aug 13, 2008, 03:59 AM
    Longdistance relationship
    HI,
    I AM 22 F FROM RAIPUR.recently my boyfriend broke up because he has to go to uk.
    I love him a lot.he don't understands and don't care about me.I LOST MY SELFRESPECT.PLEASE HELP ME.
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    Aug 13, 2008, 06:02 AM
    Is he moving for good to the UK? What are his reasons for moving
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    Aug 13, 2008, 08:51 AM
    Ohh dear... am so sorry for this... I know how you must be feeling now... completely broken and disorted... u must be fighting with your tooth and nails to get him back and could have tried every possible way... but he's not ready to listen to you just becoz the glamour n' glaze of going abroad for him has influenced his mind so powerfully that you might hardly matter to him now. He could be confident about him that he might get somebody better than u.. but trust me its not the way it works... it won't happen... he will miss your existence in his life after he is contented there.. n trust me that day is not too far to come... Remember its like two magnets having same power... the more you try to get closer the faster he will get away from u... all that you can do is control yourself.. I know its next to impossible because it was him who controlled you n supported you in such conditions and now the support is not anymore. So you have to be only this much strong at least for yourself. Don't blame him.. dont blame yourself... dont go crawling for him.. keep it cool... cry if you want to... shout and let it all out... try every possible way to get the feeling out of your head... and when your in love everything is fair... I hope this makes you feel better.. if so I would be happy to get a response from you at [email protected] this makes you feel okay I will think I came out a winner from my tragedy!
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    Aug 13, 2008, 08:54 AM
    Whoaa! So many typing mistakes I made... I hope you get me right Miss. Raipur! :-)
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    Aug 13, 2008, 10:15 AM
    Take the time to heal, rebuild your life with the things you had before him, and add new people, places, and things, you enjoy.

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