Wow. I don't even know where to start. You are so ridiculously lost it's not even funny. I'm not trying to be rude, just accurate.
Originally Posted by
ERINA3746
My fiance does drugs every once in awhile crack/cocaine to be specific.
I've never heard of someone who can do these drugs every once and while. I'd bet he's doing them more then you realize. Since your in denial, let's assume your right and it is once and while. Your boyfriend has issues that are beyond his control and don't exactly make him fit to be hanging around... and your living with the guy. If you had a daughter, is the this the dream guy you'd want there dating?
Originally Posted by
ERINA3746
my cousin who is a big time crack addict who said he was gonna come and get him for a night out....
So why are you hanging out with your cousin. You knew your cousin long before he met your boyfriend, what about his behavior warrants being around him.
Originally Posted by
ERINA3746
well i was pissed off and i went to go to the bathroom and looked out my bedroom window and saw my fiance in my car stealing money from me.
Remember when I said he was doing them more then you realize. Well, this is why. The guy is stealing from you to pay for his addiction. Think about this BS. If your boyfriend broke into my car and was stealing money from it, he was be introduced to my fist. You on the other hand want to know if you should continue sleeping with him? One of us is thinking straight... the other one is you.
How you can possibly sit there and say he only has a problem "occasionally" speaks to YOUR denial about this problem.
Originally Posted by
ERINA3746
I confronted him and asked him are you stealing money from me he said yup.
Well give him one for honesty. The man is so far gone into his addiction... which you won't even admit to, that he admits openly he steals for it.? WHAT THE HELL IS GOING ON HERE? This is one of the easiest get the hell out of this situations I've ever seen posted on this site!
Originally Posted by
ERINA3746
Well i needed that money to go to the dr.s and get my car inspected the next day.
So his addiction... the one you call "occasional" is so bad that he steals from you for money that was for your own personal well being for your own doctor's visit. His addiction is more important then your own health. ARE YOU OUT OF YOUR F-ING MIND? Kick his a$$ to the curb. He doesn't give a damn about anything about you.
Originally Posted by
ERINA3746
I got so angry
It's about time, I'm PO'ed and I don't even know this tool.
Originally Posted by
ERINA3746
i grabbed my car keys and left and went to my parents for the night.
So now we know he's a crack addict (occasionally, of course), he's a thief, he doesn't care about your health, and he has no problem letting you go home and tell you parents about what a loser he is. Seriously, I can't imagine my daughter coming home and telling me this story and me thinking, "Yeah she's got a winner, if I died today, I'm thrilled to know this is the guy looking after her." WHAT ABOUT THIS IS IN ANY WAY RIGHT?
Originally Posted by
ERINA3746
I went back home at 730 am and he was not there he didnt get home till 1pm and has not really said anything to me since i am so angry with him i dont know what to do...
How about leave... forever. Man I can't believe this would even be a hard decision.
Originally Posted by
ERINA3746
its not like he has an uncontrollable drug problem
HE'S STEALING TO SUPPORT HIS DRUG PROBLEM? ARE YOU AND TALKING ABOUT THE SAME GUY?? You are in such denial, are you the one on drugs?
Originally Posted by
ERINA3746
because he can go weeks without doing drugs..
He can go weeks without you knowing.
Originally Posted by
ERINA3746
I want to know if im stupid for giving this yet another chance,
Yes, very stupid.
Originally Posted by
ERINA3746
i just wish the occasional drug use would stop..
Occasional. There it is. Other then that... and the theft... and the lack of concern about your health... and not giving a damn where you sleep at night, the guy is really a good guy.
Originally Posted by
ERINA3746
i do love him with all my heart and soul....i need advice desperately
What you have is a co=dependancy problem. You love him with your heart and soul. Great line for a movie but in real life you heart and soul would like have her money back. That part of your heart and should has been disrepected and last time I checked that's not love. 3 billion guys on this planet, and this is yours? You need to leave him yesterday. I mean that, when you left yesterday you should have left him. Why would anybody want this situation or this person in there life? Relationships do have ups and downs, but at least when there are some down times you have the ups to look forward to. This is just dragging at the bottom and staying there.