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    bridgettemarie Posts: 4, Reputation: 1
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    Jun 13, 2008, 06:51 PM
    I don't understand men!
    So a friend told me that he knew a really nice guy and asked if he could give him my number. Always hoping to find the elusive nice guy I of course said yes. My friend ran into his friend and asked him to pass on a message that he knew a great girl and to give him a call if interested. The message was quickly passed and within 24 hours the nice guy called my friend for my phone number.

    That was two days ago and no contact. He seemed interested so why hasn't he made contact? I do not have his number and feel that the ball is in his pocket. BUT how long do I wait before I give up? I realize its only been two days but I'm just wondering how long to give him.

    Thanks for any insights - slightly neurotic right this moment:o
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    Jun 13, 2008, 07:49 PM
    A guy you don't know has been given your number and hasn't called you yet? You want to know what some guy YOU haven't even met is thinking? Well, WE haven't met him either.

    If you can't live with the waiting, don't. Call your friend, get his number, call him, ask him if he has your number right, confirm it, then tell him you're looking forward to HIS call.

    Hang up. He'll probably call you right back, and wasn't that fun?

    And yes, neurotic girl, you DO need to relax and have more fun with this stuff.
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    Jun 17, 2008, 11:16 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by bridgettemarie
    so a friend told me that he knew a really nice guy and asked if he could give him my number. always hoping to find the elusive nice guy i of course said yes. my friend ran into his friend and asked him to pass on a message that he knew a great girl and to give him a call if interested. the message was quickly passed and within 24 hours the nice guy called my friend for my phone number.

    that was two days ago and no contact. he seemed interested so why hasnt he made contact? i do not have his number and feel that the ball is in his pocket. BUT how long do i wait before i give up? I realize its only been two days but im just wondering how long to give him.

    thanks for any insights - slightly neurotic right this moment:o
    Give him about a week sometimes people get busy with things and forget what they've been doing something you can do though in the mean time is ask your friend to drop a hint that you want the guy to call because if he has forgot and he knows your excited that might cause him to call.
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    Jun 18, 2008, 12:01 AM
    guys don't intent to call any girl out of of blue if they don't no them... and this situation... he didn't even met you...

    girls tent to play game ^^ >.. why don't you play a game with him ?

    you can do what JB told you to.. ask for his number... call him then tell him you waitting for his call..

    or just simple as calling him on your phone... he has your number... he will call right back and say what up ^^

    THINK ABOUT IT

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