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    Lost Soul 2008 Posts: 4, Reputation: 1
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    Mar 12, 2008, 09:57 PM
    From Hot to Cold
    How come guys could go from being so affectionate and showing all this love to the next day of being cold and not hearing from him for hours as if the day before did'nt happen?:confused:
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    Mar 12, 2008, 10:24 PM
    The same can be said of women... this is the million dollar question. I've asked myself this so many times... "how can they just...?" you fill in the blank... fall out of love, ignore you after an amazing day, cheat on you...

    Anyway, perhaps you're just needy, maybe he is busy... not hearing from him in "hours", wow, you need to hear from him every hour to couple of hours? Sometimes it seems people change over night, but then again sometimes people worry too much... like you. If this is your boyfriend, why not call him? And keep calling him every hour, on the hour till he becomes annoyed with you. People have to have their own lives, you are PART of his life, not all of it. Be glad you have someone who values their time alone.
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    Mar 12, 2008, 11:21 PM
    I feel like I have the same problem!my boyfriend and I used to talk every single moment we are free,talk about everything... if he said he does not want to eat anything for today's lunch,and then I get no message from him,I will be very worried,although I know he must be too busy to talk with me!I am still very worried!I am always feel like I can not control myself!it seems he is verything of mine!if no news from him,I feel I am dying!but I never tell such kind of feeling to him!
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    Mar 12, 2008, 11:30 PM
    Work on keeping yourself more distracted on your own life, and less on that person if they want you they will come around and may even wonder where have U been instead of you wondering now wouldn't that be nice for a change reverse the role it works.
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    Mar 13, 2008, 11:06 PM
    Could you just need a lot more balance in your life? Like something else you could be doing, and enjoying? Depending on someone all the time, to make you happy is unhealthy, and making them the center of all your life is... GROSS!
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    Mar 14, 2008, 02:30 AM
    No offense, but you do come across as a bit needy to me. A few hours is not a big deal, he's prob just busy. A few days, then you got something to worry about. There is something called the push-pull theory of attraction. When you push too much, your partner will pull away, and vice versa. Maybe he feels smothered and just needed some time alone.
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