Originally Posted by
thoughtiwastheman
I'm not going to tell you all the things you should or shouldn't do because those that have posted already have done a great job in saying all the things I would have said. One thing I will say though is this. Look at her history. To me it seems like she has hurt a few good men in her life. The lesson you can take from this is that if shes done it once, she's likely to do it again. Let her go and try to forget about her. I know that this is hard and that only you yourself can overcome this burden but you must try to move on. Its the only way. Good luck.....oh yeah, you're only 25....come on man, you have a lot more to learn and live for. Try taking a vacation to an exotic destination with beautiful women. Some place like Brazil, Italy, Hawii, or Puerto Rico. I'm sure the women in these places will not only make you forget your ex, but changing the scenery will also open your eyes to new things. Just a side note: When I went through my breakup, I came home from school every chance I got so that I can be with my friends and family. For me that was what I needed at the time. Think about what you need and go for it. Money shouldn't be a factor either. I've always put my mental/physical health above everything else so do what makes you feel good. This is the time to do things you wouldn't normally do. Branch out and do something that you've always wanted to do but never did because of the status quo or for some other reasons you may have. Live my friend. Live.
Great post... Thanks a lot. I know I'm only 25 and the life is in front of me and all that, but it's tough because of stuff that's going on in my head that doesn't make any sense. I'm actually originally from Europe so I've visited some of the places you mentiond in the past. It was great, but knowing that my ex is in Germany, I really don't want to go anywhere clsoe there now because I would just want to drive over there.
She has screwed up many guys in her past... I knew that, but didn't see it because I was blindly in love with her... Deep down inside I knew it wasn't going to last and she's going to break my heart but, heart took over...
You know that song by Justin Timberlake " What goes around comes around" That song I first heard when I met her, I've been listening to it for a long time and it's exactly the way it happened for me... the only thing I don't know if she'll get hers at the end or not, but it really doesn't matter now.
Lyrics
Hey girl, is he everything you wanted in a man
You know I gave you the world
You had me in the palm of your hand
So why your love went away
I just can't seem to understand
Thought it was me and you babe
Me and you until the end
But I guess I was wrong
Don't want to think about it
Don't want to talk about it
I'm just so sick about it
Can't believe it's ending this way
Just so confused about it
Feeling the blues about it
I just can't do without you
Tell me is this fair?
Is this the way it's really going down?
Is this how we say goodbye?
Should've known better when you came around
That you were going to make me cry
It's breaking my heart to watch you run around
'Cause I know that you're living a lie
That's okay baby 'cause in time you will find...
What goes around, goes around, goes around
Comes all the way back around
What goes around, goes around, goes around
Comes all the way back around
What goes around, goes around, goes around
Comes all the way back around
What goes around, goes around, goes around
Comes all the way back around
Now girl, I remember everything that you claimed
You said that you were moving on now
And maybe I should do the same
Funny thing about that is
I was ready to give you my name
Thought it was me and you, babe
And now, it's all just a shame
And I guess I was wrong
Don't want to think about it
Don't want to talk about it
I'm just so sick about it
Can't believe it's ending this way
Just so confused about it
Feeling the blues about it
I just can't do without you
Can you tell me is this fair?
Is this the way things are going down?
Is this how we say goodbye?
Should've known better when you came around (should've known better that you were going to make me cry)
That you were going to make me cry
Now it's breaking my heart to watch you run around
'Cause I know that you're living a lie
That's okay baby 'cause in time you will find
What goes around, goes around, goes around
Comes all the way back around
What goes around, goes around, goes around
Comes all the way back around
What goes around, goes around, goes around
Comes all the way back around
What goes around, goes around, goes around
Comes all the way back around
What goes around comes around
Yeah
What goes around comes around
[ What Goes Around lyrics found on
Complete Album Lyrics ]
You should know that
What goes around comes around
Yeah
What goes around comes around
You should know that
Don't want to think about it (no)
Don't want to talk about it
I'm just so sick about it
Can't believe it's ending this way
Just so confused about it
Feeling the blues about it (yeah)
I just can't do without you
Tell me is this fair?
Is this the way things are going down?
Is this how we say goodbye?
Should've known better when you came around (should've known better that you were going to make me cry)
That you were going to make me cry
Now it's breaking my heart to watch you run around
'Cause I know that you're living a lie
But that's okay baby 'cause in time you will find
What goes around, goes around, goes around
Comes all the way back around
What goes around, goes around, goes around
Comes all the way back around
What goes around, goes around, goes around
Comes all the way back around
What goes around, goes around, goes around
Comes all the way back around
[Comes Around interlude:]
Let me paint this picture for you, baby
You spend your nights alone
And he never comes home
And every time you call him
All you get's a busy tone
I heard you found out
That he's doing to you
What you did to me
Ain't that the way it goes
You cheated girl
My heart bleeds girl
So it goes without saying that you left me feeling hurt
Just a classic case
A scenario
Tale as old as time
Girl you got what you deserved
And now you want somebody
To cure the lonely nights
You wish you had somebody
That could come and make it right
But girl I ain't somebody with a lot of sympathy
You'll see
(What goes around comes back around)
I thought I told you, hey
(What goes around comes back around)
I thought I told you, hey
(What goes around comes back around)
I thought I told you, hey
(What goes around comes back around)
I thought I told you, hey
See?
You should've listened to me, baby
Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah
Because
(What goes around comes back around