[tina011205]

I don't know what to do? I have been with my boyfriend for 8 months. I love him so much. When I fell for him I fell hard and fast. I never had that happen before. He tells me all the time that he loves me and he wants to be with me, but sometimes his actions aren't the same. He sometimes seems distant and there are times it seems like he doesn't want anything to do with me. I will let you know that I have a hard time letting out my feelings, I get embarresed when it comes to telling him my feelings for him. He is only my second boyfriend. Maybe I want him to be more romantic then he is. I don't for sure. I guess I need some advice.

[s_cianci]

About the only advice I can give you is that you can't change someone from being who and what they are. You also can't blame someone else for what you perceive as your own shortcomings, i.e. "I have a hard time letting out my feelings, I get embarrassed when it comes to telling him my feelings for him." You'll have to make your own decision whether this relationship is what you want but remember, happiness comes from within ; another person is not going to make you happy.

[Marriedguy]

If he makes you happy then I wouldn't end the relationship. Being romantic is a skill some guys just have it and so just don't. If you want romance try to get that message to him in a way that does hurt his feelings. If he loves you he will be willing to learn what things you like, and want in the relationship.

And what do you mean but being romantic spell it out? Being I'm married and I still don't think I'm romantic.

[hidden123]

It is my experience that guys need to pull away every once in a wile - hence him being distant sometimes... when that happens just leave him be.. if you want things to be a little more romantic - take the initiative... show him what you mean..