Husband has secrets
Over the last six months I have found my husband to have many secrets. Credit cards without my knowledge, using credit card for everyday expenses when he has plenty of money in his pocket, hidden receipts and pay stubs, hidden receipts for withdraws from our credit union without my knowledge. When I ask why I only get "I don't know why I did it". Recently worked a 14 hour day at a job with a friend which he said was for extra money to help out (I make double his salary and pay all of our living expenses) but I never saw a penny of it. Right before Christmas he had $600 gone in a week that he could not account for with nothing to show for it and no receipts. I have asked all the obvious questions - girlfriend, child, drugs, gambeling, owe someone money, gave someone money, paying for something, helping family. He answers no to all questions and then says "I don't know what to tell you" or "What do you want me to say?". Something's he has flat out lied and when I prove it a lie I get "ok so I lied". In our last agument I asked "So do yu want me or her?" First he said he didn't know. When I asked again he said "I don't want her and I dont want you". We've been married for 25 years, have 2 grown children and a grandchild as well as a 12 year old. I don't know what o think or do, Please help!
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