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    HistorianChick Posts: 2,556, Reputation: 825
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    Apr 3, 2008, 12:31 PM
    Trust is paramount in a relationship. Without trust, it is simply two people coexisting.

    Personally, I would have a very difficult time trying to get over someone cheating on me.

    Sweetie, you are the only one who will be able to know if you can get over this. If you can't - no one is blaming you. By cheating, he violated your trust and placed you in this situation. He may truly be repentant and may never cheat on you again. If you are willing to take that gamble, you are being the better person. If not, then hon, its really OK.

    When you're in a relationship, you should be able to trust your partner and they should be able to trust you. That is the essence of a true, wholesome relationship. If you don't forsee that with this man, then you would be wise to end it.

    I wish you the best of luck and that your heart will begin to heal from this betrayal. :)
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    kellyandben1234 Posts: 21, Reputation: 1
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    Apr 4, 2008, 06:06 AM
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    What are u stupid or really that hard up for someone.You must really think low of yourself 2 keep a loser. If he had the same amount of love or either respect for u he want not have cheated on u. You sound like u might have low esteen or u really think the world of him. Let the dog go because u will live a world of heart ache. Go out wit ur friends and find someone new. A real man will not cheat and if he loved u would not want 2 see u hurt. I wish I knew u because I would set u up with a good guy and then have 1 of my male friend whip his a**. Remember can love someone but love ur self more. When u look at ur self in the mirror ask yourself if he deserve u.

    I haven't got any friends I do love him .but I can't talk to no one
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    BigCityDreams007 Posts: 80, Reputation: 2
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    Apr 4, 2008, 06:23 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by kellyandben1234
    my boyfriend cheated on me with a young girl but i can't forgive him and i can't get over it please help
    I let someone who I refused to give up on cheat on me 5 times... guys who cheat and lie will do it again.

    Sweety if you can't forgive and forget how are you ever going to make a relationship work.

    Goodluck I know its hard
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