[13sldr]

How do I talk to females

I am 17, just moved to phoenix because my mom is being deplyoed again. I broke up with my ex back in July

I have always been shy, and moving here hasn't helped out at tall, this is my fourth high school and I'm a jr. you think I would be use to talking to females by now

Does anyone have any advise?

[Rinacakes1991]

From reading you're question I sat here and examined all the guys whoever tried talking to me... took a while. But I realized I like the ones who just came up to me and said hi my name is blah blah blah what's yours? Not too goofy, not to distant. You say you're shy so start in the classroom then work you're way up. Good luck ;)

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[Shorty87]

Agreed... start with hi and go from there. Don't try any crazy lines or be someone your not. As hard as it may seem really be yourself you are much more interesting than a guy you might pretend to be. Since you are new to the city maybe ask what there is to do in town. Adking a question opens up more room for conversation. She will respond and maybe ask where you are from... see you are already in a conversation. Then you can tell them about yourself and inturn get info about them. Also if you start in the classroom you already have something in common... a class. You can make a comment about the test you just took or how silly the paper topic is to start conversation.

[Rinacakes1991]

Totally agree with Shorty87

[13sldr]

Thank you for the adivse

[Rinacakes1991]

You're welcome

[Shorty87]

No problem! That's just how the guys that I like impress me the most!

[13sldr]

How am I going to know if she is interested in me and not just talking to me so ill leave her alone

[Shorty87]

Eye contact. If she looks away a lot or looks at her friends for answers she's probably not interested (and not worth your time) but if she is making fairly constant eye contact and simles she could be digging you. Also complements are a pretty good sign. When I am interesed in a guy I find excuses to talk to him. Like asking for help when I don't need it or what classes he is taking next or what he did the night before. Hope this helps!

[Rinacakes1991]

Who gives? Build up what I like to call sources ,even if she dosen't like you she just might have friends who do. But from looking at past conversatins with guys I noticed that when I'm interested I keep the conversation going. So if it seems like you are doing all the talking cool down, you got to have some dignity. Remember always be nice but play hard to get to some extent.

[13sldr]

This is going to help a lot
If you have anymore suggestions, let me know

[Rinacakes1991]

All righty, good luck ;)

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[kitten94515]

First of all don't call us females.
I think that is so repulsive.
We are girl, nothing more nothing less.
And just talk.
Not that hard.
Hi, what's up, what kind of music do you like, want to hang out?
There. All done.
[: lol.

[KD33]

Women are kind of hard for a lot of men to understand, they go through a lot of emotional estate and are usually quite creative and fun to be with, just be attentive to what she says and be there for her and she will do the same for you. Unless she's self centered.