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jeannie37 · Oct 18, 2007, 04:54 PM

My b/f works out on the road for 4 weeks at a time and comes home for 1 week. My question is what ideas do you have to keep it spicy and hot while he's gone and when he comes home. We phone each other every night and text through the day but I don't want to be boring during these times. We are both very sexual people and very open and honest with each other and we trust each other fully so I think we are on the right track.

Homegirl 50 · Oct 18, 2007, 05:09 PM

Just keep doing what you're doing. You communicate regularly when he is away, he should be good and glad to see you when he comes home.
If you feel like you've got to do magic tricks when he gets home to make him want you, you've got problems IMO

jeannie37 · Oct 18, 2007, 05:24 PM

I don't feel as though I have to do magic tricks and I certainly don't have problems . I know he's happy to see me as I am him I was asking for ideas to spice it up and keep it fresh. Do you have any? I certainly please him in the bedroom/or wherever we decide to be and he pleases me .there is nothing wrong with us trying to keep it from getting boring and if you think so you may the problem.

Homegirl 50 · Oct 18, 2007, 05:35 PM

I didn't say you had problems. I said keep communicating with each other when he is away and you will be fine when he gets home. If you have a good sex life it doesn't get stale. When you begin to feel like you have to do tricks, you have a problem. You guys obviously don't have one.