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Hitch21 · Sep 8, 2007, 11:04 PM

I saw him today, was with him all day, we talked and straightened a lot of things out, and were going to be together tomorrow too and talk some more, he wants to be with me and make things better..

See my other post about trust.. let me know what you think

Skell · Sep 9, 2007, 04:32 PM

You sound clingy and desperate for his attention. Why do you have to call him all the time at work? Id get sick of you too. You seem to push and push and push until you get what you want. You'll just push him away!

Jiser · Sep 9, 2007, 04:34 PM

Try staying occupied with other things if your clingy!

Hitch21 · Sep 9, 2007, 10:29 PM

I don't think I'm clingy, if he can make time for other things and other people... y is it too much to ask for to call me and spend time w more

Skell · Sep 9, 2007, 11:04 PM

Ive answered your other thread as well. And as is said in that I don't see why you are with him You clearly aren't happy and if what you say is true he isn't really giving you what you want. You don't trust him and he pays little to no attention to you. Why be in a relationship like that?

Seems cut and dried to me. As hard as it may seem you should probably leave him and move on to a happy and healthy relationship once you've learned your lessons from this one.

And Grayson, I think the disagree was a bit out of line considering you actually agreed with me in a round about kind of way. Someone who needs attention and pushes and pushes and pushes is a pretty good explanation of clingy wouldn't you agree??

Grayson301 · Sep 10, 2007, 04:29 PM

Cling definition
Intr.v. clung (klng), cling·ing, clings
1. To hold fast or adhere to something, as by grasping, sticking, embracing, or entwining: clung to the rope to keep from falling; fabrics that cling to the body.
2. To remain close; resist separation: We clung together in the storm.
3. To remain emotionally attached; hold on: clinging to outdated customs
Clingy and desperate ARE two different things, she's desperate
She Craves attention her world is all about ME ME and his world is all about HIM HIM
It's unhealthy . She needs to move on and let the boys play while she finds someone to give her the attention

Skell · Sep 10, 2007, 04:31 PM

Skell's definition of clingy / smothering.

Asking someone to prove where they have been when they told you they were going to a family BBQ.

To me that is smothering and not giving me the space I need to have my own life. i.e. Clingy. If a girl demanded that of me I would be considering her clingy. But we are all different and I agree with you also Grayson.

Grayson301 · Sep 11, 2007, 03:48 PM

Ditto Skell