[kkmarie09]

My ex has a new girlfriend and I have a new boyfriend. Every time I'm with my new guy, all I can think is about my ex... is that wrong?? And everything that me and my boyfriend do.. I always compare it for some reason..
And my ex does the same thing too... as he "told" me.
So should I break up with the guy? Because I don't know if I'm over my ex or not.. I need help

[MayMsredrose]

Hi... You are not alone... I was in the same situation for years... that I used to talk about my ex with my new bfs : ))) Well, you need to ask your new boyfriend for a break tell him you are confused and you do not want to hurt him... it's obvious that you were in rush to involve yourself in a new relationship while you are not ready for it yet... what is the time you took between the breakup and having new boyfriend?? Your heart needs to heal... you need to spend sometime with yourself and determine what do you want out of life... you have mentioned that your ex- mentioned that he is going through the same situation... does that means that there is possibility to get back to him?? Or it was just general talk?? You did not mention the reason you break up with your ex... When was that? If he was mistaken.. I mean you caught him cheating on you... who break up first you or him...

Do not let your ex hurts you once again if he did earlier, first by breaking up with you, then by effecting your life & the chance of having new life, unless you feel that the reason for the break up was silly and you can go over it and get back to him & he wants you back, then it's something else... in this case you should not be selfish and hurt your current boyfriend.

Take care & be strong...

Ms. Redrose

[talaniman]

You have not moved on, and are not ready for a new relationship. Is that fair to the new b/f?? Of course not.