[AESeals16]

So here's the situation:

I was rushed into going out with this guy from my church, and our relationship was mostly physical (nothing to bad). But I felt like I couldn't do it anymore so I broke it off. And we became really close friends but then I started having feelings for him again, and he had just got a girlfriend. They were together for a year and 2 months. I've in love with him and he knows. He's not looking for a relationship right now, which I understand. But he still flirts with me and holds my hand and says he wants to kiss me and stuff. Should I wait it out and see what will happen, or should I try and move on, even though I still love him

[happylady123]

You broke up with him for a reason. It sounds like maybe he just wants a friend with benefits and doesn't want to commit. Move on and find someone who will commit to you now. It doesn't mean you can't still be friends, but maybe it would be a good idea to stop the flirting and whatever else goes on. If you wait, you may be waiting for him forever.

[lydiagr]

You need to let him chase you... don't call him or text him and try not to hang out with him for awhile and see what he does... if he tries to be around you a lot or calls you a lot or something... then maybe there's a chance. If not, then he either isn't ready for another relationship yet or just doesn't care enough to try to be with you. So be mysterious, and let him do the chasing. You'll see from that if he really wants to be around YOU or if he's just looking for SOMEONE to be close to because he got used to that with his girlfriend.


Or you could just talk to him about it and tell him how you feel and ask him honestly how he feels... but a lot of teens are shy and don't want to just come right out and talk about something that uncomfortable.