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    boos_mom_43 Posts: 2, Reputation: 1
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    Jul 17, 2007, 10:03 AM
    My boyfriend's ex-girlfriend moved back
    My boyfriends ex just moved back to Michigan and she keeps calling him and trying to get his kids to want her to come back into his life and I am not really sure what to do about it. He swears up and down I have nothing to worry about but I don't if I should believe that or not... what should I do? :confused:
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    Jul 17, 2007, 08:25 PM
    Trust him... what else would you want to do? If you don't have trust in yourrelationship, then what do you have? And if the situation were reversed and you were in his shoes and he was in yours, wouldn't you want him to trust you too? Just let it be, and if she starts making moves on him, THEN get involved. Take Care:)
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    Jul 19, 2007, 01:20 PM
    It is natural to be sketchy and worried if your weren't sketched out then that would show that you didn't love him. I would say (after reading your post) that you love this man a lot and the thing you are most worried about is him leaving you for her or anyone else for that matter so I would have to agree with CANADA_SWEETY when she says "Trust Him" there's not much more you can do then that besides there will be other times in your relationship where you have to trust him and after this trial it will be easier the next time.

    GOOD LUCK AND GOD BLESS
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    Jul 19, 2007, 04:45 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by boos_mom_43
    my boyfriends ex just moved back to michigan and she keeps calling him and trying to get his kids to want her to come back into his life and i am not really sure what to do about it. He swears up and down i have nothing to worry about but i don't if i should believe that or not...what should i do? :confused:
    Have faith and believe in him and the relationship you both share. Talk to him about how you are feeling and then evaluate whether he is telling the truth
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    Jul 21, 2007, 07:57 PM
    How is it that you know about the ex's constant calling? He swears up and down that you have nothing to worry about. Has he told her, in no unequivocal terms, that he is now with you and she is not to call him anymore? If he hasn't, then you indeed have something to worry about.
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